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@secure_doctor_4

Me and my boyfriend was in relationship for last three years. Before that he was my bestfriend. Like we used to each and everything together. But as days past his had behaviour changes. Mee too. I was so possessive in relationship back then bcz why not my bf have past which made me do that things in this relationship. And this was my first relationship ever. I don’t know being extra Cary and little possessive about own person will lead to break up. He break up with me 7 month ago. But till now we are in touch we live as a friend. He want me as a friend but now also I love so so much. I can’t get over him. I love spending time time with him. But he always used talk to his female much more and even after our breakup he hugged and kissed his female friend. How could he do that. He does many promises to me that he will never leave me. Now also he hug me he cares for me but he doesn’t want to be in relationship. How to dela with this?

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Anonymous

Well friends do hug & care for eachother so I guess you are just expecting more.

@secure_doctor_4

Am I thinking to much about that thing. Like he want me but just as a friend but he still don’t do any efforts to keep me in his life. And even he knows that that’s only girl in his circle that I don’t like to be with him . Is too much to ask for that leave her for me.

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Anonymous

Well if you had break-up then just move on in life naa why to be stucked in the loop and do this crazy stuff and create chaos.

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Anonymous

You should move on he don’t love you anymore.

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Anonymous

I am unable to move on. I love him so much. More than a life I can’t leave him . He is everything for me.

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Anonymous

Well we have to accpet the fact that things are over its tough to accept but we have to accpet it and move on in life coz there are many things waiting for you.

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Anonymous

Kya woh wapas nhi AA sakta mere pass pehle jaisa. Aur agar sacha pyar nhi tha toh jhute wade kyu krra. I’m physically mentally emotionally attached to him .how to move on .

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Anonymous

Vohi tho issue hai Aaj kal no one takes seriously

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Anonymous

Chize agar ek bar toota jaaye toh phir wo pehle jesi nai hoti hai toh usse choda du umid karna aur waade toh sab karte hai par nibhane wale bahot he kam milte hai toh waade karne wale se zyada nibhane wale par dhyaan du.

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Anonymous

Kyu Aisa krte aur hurt bhi bas ek hi person hota hai dusra apne life me khush hai . And usko dusre option bhi mil jate.

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Anonymous

Kaise baatau aapko

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Anonymous

I’m going through same situation

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Anonymous

It’s just that I’m still in a relationship with the person

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Anonymous

Hey why don’t you ghost him ?

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Anonymous

How to ghost a person?

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Anonymous

gradually reduce contact. Focus on self-care, engage in activities that bring joy, and lean on your support network. It’s okay to seek guidance from friends or family during this time.

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Anonymous

Well, lemme drop a truth bomb, you are his backup option. Take it or leave it.

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Gagandeep K. @gagandeep_ka...

Hey, hope you’re doing okay…

I think you need to sit yourself to know what exactly you were expecting from this bond earlier and now both. Then go through the past events and situations both positive and negative as much as you’re able to recall (without putting bias just because you’re feeling low) and try to write down or weigh the things down.

Then check it’s that’s what you wanted earlier and if that’s what you want for yourself now.

More power to you.
If you feel like connecting for support, you can reach out to me as I’m a counselling psychologist:)

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Anonymous

Sure . Any contact of yours ma’am?

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Gagandeep K. @gagandeep_ka...

Yes. You can book an individual session with me through this app.
My timing for availability are already mentioned over there. You can select any slot that works with you.
There are options for audio connect and video connect as well. You can choose as per your comfort.

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