Looking for advice on how to build self confidence. I’ve never been a confident person but I met someone a while back and he made me feel so good about myself. We didn’t work out which is fine, it was a case of bad timing but since then I met someone else and they’ve made me feel so worthless and I’m even less confident than I was before
Areee why they made you sad
It’s a very long story, I did another post on it a while back but didn’t get any positive feedback from anyone. I just basically have lost my self worth and have been made to feel cheap and not good enough
I guess I know you do I?? 👼👼
I don’t know if I know you haha it’s anonymous
No coz I know someone with a same circumstances
Might be then lol. Although I’m sure I’m not the only girl with a lack of confidence in themselves so who knows :)
Okk 👼
You’re anonymous too so there’s no way of knowing 😂
I know I know there’s no way of knowing but there may be a way of knowing😌😅
How 😂 we are both anonymous
Firstly, don’t base your confidence off someone else. You need to be confident for yourself. Genuinely, no one gives a shit. Everyone is sooo wrapped up in their own world that no one cares about the other person. That itself should make you confident.
I always try so hard to not let what people think about bother me but I think it’s just the sort of person I am. I’ve always been emotional too so any inconvenience in my life just generally makes me more upset than it should. I don’t know if you’ve got any tips or anything to help this. I wish I was different and I just tired of being upset
Usually this is associated with your childhood experience and upbringing… you probably always felt the need to prove yourself worthy and better for others. The problem is you could never satisfy ppl. U need to reflect on all the positive qualities that you have. Ask yourself, What makes you different from others? What is that makes you less confidence? Is it something you can work on? Is your worth based on someone else’s approval???
I actually don’t remember my childhood so this might be true. I normally brush things under the carpet but I’m tired and just want to be happy. Your comment has been so helpful and is appreciated, I’ll give these things a try and hopefully build my confidence up :)
…positive self talks helps. Also Try daily practice of gratitude.
