Cry with me
Delena @prial
Y u want to cry?
I feel useless
Delena @prial
Y so?
I just do
Delena @prial
But you’re listening to me so I don’t think you’re useless
You are a cutie
Delena @prial
No I’m not, but I think it’s a sweet thing when someone listens
If it helps you , then you should. Like if you’re overwhelmed or something ,you should do it.
Delena @prial
I did but I don’t think it’s helping me
Chris @boredaf123
Why you crying though ?
Delena @prial
Cause I think I’ve done bad things
Chris @boredaf123
Crying shows you regret doing those bad things. It means you don’t want to do it again. It’s a good sign .
Delena @prial
But I’ve hurt someone and it’s not good
Chris @boredaf123
Sometimes we hurt others. We regret hurting others but we have to understand that it is bound to happen since we are different people and sometimes our actions won’t match. I’ve hurt people in past too. Ive cried in my bed too. Some people left me for good because I hurt them. But this is life. You gotta move on. Learn from your mistakes so that you don’t commit them again. Don’t be fixated on correcting them in the past. Accept and change. Hope this helps
Delena @prial
it really helps me but what do you do when someone hurt you and then they pretend you hurt them and they leave you
Chris @boredaf123
You let them be. It hurts initially but with time it goes away eventually. Fighting them or arguing with them doesn’t help. Forgive them if you can. Leave it be if you cannot. What you must do is don’t blame yourself if you didn’t do anything wrong. And if you did, forgive yourself and move on. Give yourself time
Delena @prial
It’s been 4 months and I can’t get over these things and I don’t know how to handle it now because seeing that person happy makes me feel bad for myself
Chris @boredaf123
You seem to have feelings of resentment. I would ask you to forgive them , not for their sake, but for yours. And also, kindly block them and ignore. You both are on different tracks now. You deserve to be happy just as much as them . So don’t be harsh on yourself.
Chris @boredaf123
A good way to do that is to invest time in yourself. Focus on what makes you happy.
Delena @prial
But how can one be happy when they do all the wrong things
Delena @prial
I can’t even concentrate on my work because of this
Chris @boredaf123
Well, start doing the right things for yourself.
Chris @boredaf123
Do you mind if we connect ? I can perhaps help you in detail
Delena @prial
How?🥺
Delena @prial
Like?
Chris @boredaf123
You can explain your situation better in DM is what I feel.
Delena @prial
Like whatsapp?
Chris @boredaf123
I sent you request here. Accept
