Cry with me
Delena @prial
Y u want to cry?
I feel useless
Delena @prial
Y so?
I just do
Delena @prial
But youβre listening to me so I donβt think youβre useless
You are a cutie
Delena @prial
No Iβm not, but I think itβs a sweet thing when someone listens
If it helps you , then you should. Like if youβre overwhelmed or something ,you should do it.
Delena @prial
I did but I donβt think itβs helping me
Chris @boredaf123
Why you crying though ?
Delena @prial
Cause I think Iβve done bad things
Chris @boredaf123
Crying shows you regret doing those bad things. It means you donβt want to do it again. Itβs a good sign .
Delena @prial
But Iβve hurt someone and itβs not good
Chris @boredaf123
Sometimes we hurt others. We regret hurting others but we have to understand that it is bound to happen since we are different people and sometimes our actions wonβt match. Iβve hurt people in past too. Ive cried in my bed too. Some people left me for good because I hurt them. But this is life. You gotta move on. Learn from your mistakes so that you donβt commit them again. Donβt be fixated on correcting them in the past. Accept and change. Hope this helps
Delena @prial
it really helps me but what do you do when someone hurt you and then they pretend you hurt them and they leave you
Chris @boredaf123
You let them be. It hurts initially but with time it goes away eventually. Fighting them or arguing with them doesnβt help. Forgive them if you can. Leave it be if you cannot. What you must do is donβt blame yourself if you didnβt do anything wrong. And if you did, forgive yourself and move on. Give yourself time
Delena @prial
Itβs been 4 months and I canβt get over these things and I donβt know how to handle it now because seeing that person happy makes me feel bad for myself
Chris @boredaf123
You seem to have feelings of resentment. I would ask you to forgive them , not for their sake, but for yours. And also, kindly block them and ignore. You both are on different tracks now. You deserve to be happy just as much as them . So donβt be harsh on yourself.
Chris @boredaf123
A good way to do that is to invest time in yourself. Focus on what makes you happy.
Delena @prial
But how can one be happy when they do all the wrong things
Delena @prial
I canβt even concentrate on my work because of this
Chris @boredaf123
Well, start doing the right things for yourself.
Chris @boredaf123
Do you mind if we connect ? I can perhaps help you in detail
Delena @prial
How?π₯Ί
Delena @prial
Like?
Chris @boredaf123
You can explain your situation better in DM is what I feel.
Delena @prial
Like whatsapp?
Chris @boredaf123
I sent you request here. Accept