Just talked to my friends. I missed them and after hearing about the situations they’re in, I feel terrible. One is mentally great but physically doesn’t look good, one is physically good but mentally at the lowest levels at times, one became an alcoholic because of personal problems, one barely eats and got really skinny, one became ignored by everyone else because no one really told him about how he really makes others uncomfortable, one is an adult but could not handle them well, and one snuck cigarettes. My friends, what have they all become? I suddenly wanted to cry my eyes out. They’re all nice people but their surroundings are what made them into these individuals. I just want to give them a big warm hug. What can I do when I am abroad, studying, half of the world away? At the end of the day, they’re like my family. We take care of each other. We only studied in the same class for 3 years but it felt like decades since we’ve known each other. I don’t know what to do and I love them, I care for them deeply even if they were mean to me. Regardless, they’re people I can never hate.
Hey. If you love them so much, I’m sure they love you as well, probably more. And it’s easier to get influenced by the person you love. So I know it’s difficult for you but why don’t you try helping them out by talking some sense into them? Something’s better than nothing right?
Yeah I tried. Some of us tried but they wouldn’t listen. It’s like there’s no possible solution. They’re all sad and depressed. Since I just recovered and felt happier, I think my solution is to show them what happiness, a carefree life is like in this world. Maybe they will change their mind. I can’t do it right now because this plan requires bringing them abroad so I need cash.
I think what’s you’re thinking is absolutely right and the best way out. Enlighten themm
Thank you :)
OK, try to meet up with them on Zoom often if you can. Try to make sure they talk to each other, check on them sometimes and let them know you’re always there for them. Try to look into ways to help them maybe? Or send them all a letter, handwritten and full of love :D i hope this helps!!
Thank you. We have been talking over the weekend. I will try to send them some stuff with whatever I have and able to afford.
