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I’ve never regretted being nice to someone so much, even though being nice is in my nature; never has someone made me feel so bad for being myself. Women don’t understand the value of the people who are nice to them because they are afraid that they will be required to reciprocate the niceness. So they villanise them; (apparently guys who are nice are entitled and manipulative)
Today is my last day as a nice guy. Watching those videos stung me and made me cry, literally. All I wanted to do was treat people nicely. I did have a few expectations, but I never forced anyone to fulfill them; I never even complained. I will never respect or try to understand a woman again. I’m not doing this as retribution or as a way of showing my anger; that is not in my nature. I’m doing this for myself, so that I don’t keep getting rejected anymore.

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jonnie @jonnie

Dude follow the rule of Tit for Tat … when it comes about people …

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@this_sucks

Has got literally nothing to do with being right or being a man, but thanks ☺️

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@this_sucks

No.

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Aphrodite @captivatingsoul

You can’t change your nature in a single day. Be yourself! Let good people reciprocate and throw the bad ones outta life. Much love.

@this_sucks

I never said I’ll change myself;I’m not that sort of person. I just said that I will change my attitude towards certain people: women. I believe that I have every right to do so, given the way that my experiences have been.

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Aphrodite @captivatingsoul

That’s what i mean then. And not all women are same. You can’t judge the whole tribe because of certain ones. 😅

@this_sucks

I’m not judging women. Did I ever say that women were wrong or bad for hating nice guys? Did I even ask why they hate nice guys? I’m not the sort of person who is unnecessarily mean or judges people too easily.
And as for all women not being the same, I’m sorry. I don’t have any reason to believe that all Women don’t hate nice guys. But I don’t want to assume that they do, so just in case some are different, I’ll ensure that their nature has got nothing to do with the way in which they treated. Because hey, I’m not the guy who likes to judge people. But every women will get treated the same way by me.

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Aphrodite @captivatingsoul

Ahh, i can feel you! Anyways, Wishing you the best. Do what’s good for you and your better self. Love.

@this_sucks

Thanks ☺️

Samuel Patel @aman_hu

Hey, same is my condition bro… Can you share that youtube video link

@this_sucks

Just search Nice Guys Finish Last or Nice Guy Syndrome or Why you should stop being nice on YouTube. There are plenty of videos. Links don’t work on this app, as far as I know.

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Soha Sayed @ssmarty

U can do whatever u please…just be happy man

@this_sucks

Happiness has got nothing to do with my decision. When I said I’m not doing it out of anger, I assumed that people would understand that I’m not doing it for happiness either. Eitherway, happiness will always be denied to me.

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