DSR @20y
Iโve been planning a trip with my boyfriend wherein he was going to come and visit me in the city where I study, itโs quite far from his city. We were supposed to spend some time together this Christmas and new year like around 10 days and also we both were so excited. He also booked his flight and he was so happy. But my family is going through bad financial issues I canโt explain, I thought I can manage somehow but it seems I canโt push it and hence I talked it out with him that weโll have to cancel the trip because Iโm incapable to spend any money and also I donโt want to be a burden on him. He got mad and Itโs totally right because somewhere I saw it coming I shouldโve let him know beforehand but i was trying to arrange the money until the very last but I couldnโt ofc. He didnโt say much, but i could feel he got sad and disappointed and iโm deeply hurt by this. Weโre in a long distance relationship for more than a year now, we met in person thrice and those days i spent with him were so beautiful i canโt describe. We love each other so much and also thereโs a good understanding between but somewhere we both want to stay together in person and when we get the opportunity we canโt miss it at any cost because long distance is not at all easy all weโre made of is strong love and high hopes always but when it breaks, it hurts a lot. I really wanted to be with him, heโs the only best friend iโve ever had, iโm a loner without him. i thought iโll get to spend christmas and new years with him, iโll cook for him, feed him, take care of him atleast weโll be together but we couldnโt make it this time. Iโm mostly in a disturbed state of mind due to family problems, no friends, academic problems and other personality issues but with him, itโs all forgotten, he makes me feel like iโm the best and most beautiful person, he hypes me up, scold me for not taking care of myself, he cares for me a lot, i feel so good with him and talking to him. I really wished to see him even for a short period time but i really wanted to.
Awww u guys are so cute and lovely. Please facetime him right now.
Long distance will have setbacks like this. Tell him you will go once your situation change. Iโm sure he would understand. Be patient . Hope you get through this and see the better side.