I’ve been compared to my sibling all my childhood. It still triggers me. How to deal with it? It ruins my self confidence.
ALWAYS take the high ground. Let em compare. You are who you are and you can’t be your brother/sister. When you accept that only then you can focus on yourself and move forward.
Why do you take that in a negative sense? Comparison can trigger your self respect and that can make you work even harder. Results are not important, efforts are. Atleast if you fail even after trying you will develop a confidence and satisfaction that you are capable of doing anything and you tried. You are just answerable to yourself. Remember that