Itโs been 2 years since I had my breakup and Iโve been trying to move on ane make peace with my past. But after every 3-4 months he tries to contact me and I couldnโt resist myself to reply. He shares his emotions and problems and then vanish the next day. It Hurts and I always feel like moving back to square one. Itโs mentally very disturbing. I donโt feel exhausting anymore. At times I feel like , Iโm always there when he needs me within minutes and when I share something he wonโt even reply.
Avoid him totally. Donโt answer his callsโฆ.avoid and ignoreโฆ.your peace matters.
MOVE ON DONT LET HIM PLAY IT AGAIN !! You can do it leave and donโt give explanations just leave
we are totally in the same shoes
It is completely understandable to take time before u can completely move on and itโs a process that doesnโt happen overnight. It is also understandable if u are tempted to text him back and be there for him when he is feeling low but if he doesnโt have the decency to acknowledge it or repeat the gesture when u are feeling low; there is no point. And he needs to understand that. I understand that it is hard and it hurts but uโve got to do this for urself. You donโt deserve to be treated this way and donโt let people treat u that way either. My advice would be that u have two options, either u can confront him about it or u can completely ignore him. I would recommend doing the latter cause if u do the first option he is most likely to give u an excuse, which will most likely end up with u being hurt and thatโs the last thing u need. But at the end of the day, itโs ur choice. Believe in urself. I believe u will be able to move on one day.๐๐