Is their any who want to listen me ?
I have school frnd whom i used to talk & share each problem with her.till college every single day whenever my mood is off …now I feel like not to talk her as I share so many things to her about like eg .my family issue (sister wedding which get cancelled due to some reason 2years back ).now whenever she phone called me she just ask me about that situations when will marriage happen bla.bla so I used to tell what happening in my home …)…but now I realising that I shouldnt tell each things …yesterday she was calling me but I didn’t attend her call . I am regreting right now why I said to her.
I wish I would talk to her once a year not more than that
I should not talked to her after school days. each and every week, I should not share things to her which are meant to be private .
I don’t know …I don’t want to ruin frndship ,
I just want little more space…
ok she is just concerned about you and seen how in old times this disturbed you so thinks that it does now also therefore like to talk about same issue. Politely tell her you do not want to discuss it and ask her about the day or new movie etc she will get your hint. And yes try your part to keep good friends close.
Actually ,she used tell my problems to other friend(saki ) in our school group circle which I don’t like it .as there was misunderstanding was created b/w me and other frnd(saki) .so I don’t like to talk her….
she is just worried probably like she always does.if you want space ,just ask polietly. she is your friend and friends can understand . talk and find your space
Actually ,she tell my problems to other friend(saki ) in our school group circle which I don’t like it .as there was misunderstanding was created b/w me and other frnd(saki) .so I don’t like to talk her…
you have made your mind certainly. Don’t force yourself to be her friend. you can either be polite and state your problems directly, or have conversation which you like to make and don’t get personal.
Just ask her not to tell ur private things to the other frnd… of course politely😄