I'm new here and really don't know what I'm doing. I feel really bad about hiding my secret from my family and it is haunting me. What should I do?

Why are you hiding ur job thing to ur parents? Are you doing job out of country? 

It depends what type of secret your hiding from them so that it won't effect ur feelings 

Am tried of every thing will be ok now

Ladies and gentlemen, here’s a reminder to never settle for anything or anyone!

I was dating my ex for 4 years and he would get very possessive if I wore shorts or had cleavage. Made me feel bad for wearing 3” shorts. 
Met this white dude a year after my ex and I broke up. Today I jokingly said I wanted to buy a dress very revealing and his exact words are “go for it babe🔥. You’re a hottie and would likely look good in it” 
When I tell you my jaw dropped. 

Affirmations

Now&Me should make it so we can delete comments on our posts. 

Now&Me Feedback

 Want to be alone for now.

Now&Me Thinks

Hey Telugu one 
How r u ..?

Friends

I do not crave anyone who will fix me. Just someone who will hold my hand while I fix myself. 

Self Love

I don't know where to start. It's been too chaotic that I don't seem to know on which side the tornado is. 
A. I'm getting great opportunities for designing, which after deliverance, it jus slips away.
B. My ex (prolly the love of my life), is back in my life. But I don't know how we are. We had a very dreadful breakup which was next to heinous, and he is back, trying these tactics and  hurting me by saying different girls names, that uhm... He is doing. Everytime. I have been strong and I don't react much. But how am I supposed to tell him that I'm still there. .. there's lot to say and loads of context involved... 
I wrote something for him which I don't know he will ever receive so putting it here:
Hey, 
I know I can be a difficult person to love. 
For everything that has happened in the past I'm a compilation of the remnants, glued together whose adherence is seizing to oblivion now. The part that will always follow me and keep hurting ain't gonna burn away, it'll kindle time to time, and no matter how much I try to keep it burried and move a god damn crate on it, it's gonna crack open, it'll unleash in a fathomable way that no force could stop, this could go for days or weeks and no matter how hard I try to conceal and don't feel, I will. On those days I'm not a nice person, I'm barely a human at that point, but what scares the most of the unrequited love I have for you and it's not gonna go away. Because i loved you, and when I did, it was with every fiber of my body, every drop of my soul, every quench of my blood and every ounce of my breath, because you babe mean everything where the world doesn't anymore. The veracity of how loud the melancholic soul is roaring with leaps of flame is going high with every sigh of your name. 
And this will scare you, because even my fragile heart gets the uncalled wave of shocks in the masquerade of ache and crying and wallowing. But will you stick... This time...? Will you hold my hand to "here's forever more to go"? Not everything is meant to be, they say but what if it is? I'll take you with all your imperfections, because you darling are my angel, my knight in shining armour, my beacon of hope, my wings of joy. I gave my all to you, once and once I heal, I'll give it again and again and again, till I'm strong enough to not go for again. 

Will you? 


Love

miracles do happend! I was lost, I failed a lot, I didn't even belive in myself or god. I didn't pray at all. I was just calling for help from him, because no one left. A lot had happend I failed in exsams, speaking, study, relationahips( friends and family), beliving that I can make somthing ....ect. somtimes it takes time, but time is made of gold, so don't pay attention to it. It not about time, it's up to u! I somehow felt like that day was all wrong and  lots of things that can't be described by words. Now I am up a block to my dream. Even if it was a block it meant a lot for me, so unreal. As if I can, but I can't in the same time. That day I felt like slaping my head tp the wall untile it bleed but there was no wall. The happiness is not somthing that anybody can get. Getting good gradea that u acually worked hard for, leted u heart beat every half second. I never felt me. I am happy, but my path now it harder then befor, it will be tough. Life have other plans, if u failed somthing, it doesn't meant for u, or now isn't the time. for all 2004's and up,  jops/working, learning even doing nothing is heavy enough, just go with the wind even if u don't even know which are which, just go with it. Give urself space and give god a place. U will get there somehow.  I am here to criticization the sayings" it takes time"/ wait"/ give it time" and all that gives u " time" as the main source to success! It's up to u. Here is a" meme" about grade and wrong path.

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