I'm going to settle as soon as i get a decent job , not doing that "enjoy your single days" shit, it's already shit and I'm tired of feeling alone and not being someone important. Atleast then, there will be someone i can rely on.

Ability to scale, make a bond, handle responsibilities, tackle situations and lot more

Guess everybody should remain single. Though I'm sure i can manage almost half of it (including that lot more) but everything? Dream on, Nobody is well versed in everything. Once they're into the situation that they'll learn to deal. You don't expect a person to learn driving a car without sitting in it right?

Yeah when u reach to 25 these feeling hurts us

3am Thoughts

I have been single for almost 2 years now and I like to be independent (I can't handle serious relationships I guess, and need space). Guess relationships aren't for me. But I sometimes just feel like wish I had someone, it's crazy but yeah.

Love

Honestly I am happy with my current status. I am doing good at studies and family stuff and I don't really need a boyfriend or someone I can love.
But you know when I see my friends or other couples on social media or in person, I just ask myself a question, "Am I missing something!?".
I don't know the answer to it. Talking about guys, I am friends with really good guys and if I ever think of dating I think I have a large choice but it all narrows down to if I date someone I won't be able to give my best on other things(studies and family)
I just don't really know. 

Relationships

I'm a boy from Kerala, I'm not that good looking and I don't have a relationship. I'm 26 and i never had one. I wanted to be in one, i tried like so much tinder bumble everything. I didn't even get one like, I'm using it like for the past 2 years not even one match. I'm sexually frustrated and mentally exhausted. I even tried sex with money but i lost so much money and my mind. I thought it would make me happy but it didn't. I don't know what to do, I'm in a place where everyone one around me is having a relationship some time more than one and here I'm listening to their stories. I feel like there is no point in living. What should I do

Sexual Health

So I have been single for like my whole school life and now college life too. It seems like time is just passing by and to be frank am to scared to be in a relationship too cause of a bad incident but now I just want someone to be with me with someone(not out of desperation but cause I wanna feel loved too) but it seems like I just can't approach anyone. 
I am too tired of this all

I just woke up and instantly felt single. Why?

Other

I am a guy with a very good professional career, I focussed on the career entirely in my college. I used to have good number of friends back then. Due to WFH and other peoples priorities my friends circle became thinner, so I hardly have anyone to speak. I was feeling lonely. So, I thought I’ll try dating apps, I presented my self good, but there are no matches. I feel like I have wasted my college life not focusing on other parts of life! Now I feel like I should have one partner to share my thoughts.
Anyone has same issues or any thoughts ?


Lonely

Hi. I'm turning 25 this year. I started my first job after my post grad last year. Corporate life is very frustrating and draining. I used to feel I cannot take it. I still do sometimes and wonder about alternate careers. But atleast now I'm getting more used to it. I have never been in a relationship before. And I have no girl in my life at all these days. All my friends are either dating or married or preparing to get married. At such a stage in life, I have tensions mounting and I feel I will never find a girl. I used to be hopeful in my college days and felt optimistic everytime I met a new girl. But everytime I asked anyone out, I only got rejection. As a result I just gave up on it entirely and started focussing only on my career and fitness. Now I've become so hopeless that I refuse if any friend of mine tries to set me up on a date with someone. I try tinder occasionally but I uninstall the app every time I get a match. Which is also very rare and online matchmaking only reduces my confidence further so I never use it. I get angry every time I see anything related to couples or romance in songs/movies or shows. I feel like I'll be alone all my life. I'm not someone who can confide in friends. I have spent my life only on my interests like art and fitness and never bonded too deeply with any friend. As a result, I feel I have no friend when I want to talk to someone. I believe I'll spend the rest of my life like this, entirely on my own. I don't know what to do. 

Looking for stories from people who have found the one. 
I have been single for the last 2 years. Yes the past relationships have been toxic. I have kind of shut myself off from relationships. I don't feel attracted to people romantically. (I'm a woman and I low-key even questioned my sexuality and it turns out I'm into men.) I look at other couples and think I'd like to be in a relationship someday. Last few years COVID has killed every opportunity to meet with someone and fall in love organically. In my desparation, I tried to talk to people on dating apps. They are good and I still don't feel attracted to them. It seems like I have to put a lot of effort to talk and keep the conversation going. I have to fake and it's exhausting. It shouldn't be like that if it's meant to be right? I didn't find anyone I could see myself with. I'm starting to think it will probably never happen to me. All my friends are married and settled. I'm nowhere close. 
Like Chandler said, I'm going to die alone. 
Tell me about your stories. I'd like to get some hope that yes it's still possible to be in a fulfilling relationship. Man I do not want to settle for an average relationship where we are just room mates. I look upto Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively.

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