Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Hey listen! don’t stress out… it’s a big life ahead of you… if you wanna be content creator you need to have patience and about the guy you have feelings for take your time and focus on your entrance once you’ve cleared it college life will start and you’ll be able to go out with your friends at anytime of the day! so don’t rush give it some time and tell him how you feel:)

I was in the exact situation as you when I was 18 so I can definitely tell you that the first thing you should do is set your priorities at this moment. I know it’s going to be hard, but it’s just a few months and believe me it’ll be worth it. I’ve made mistakes and I don’t want you to do the same. You can only do one thing at a time kiddo, it’s okay. Just believe in yourself and try to manage your time. Don’t worry about earning rn, you’ll definitely make it. Just let me know if you want to connect and talk more about it.

HEY THERE!!! first of all, hope you’re having a good day. :)
Lemme begin by telling you that I’m facing a similar issue in the studying front. i have my exams in a couple of months and I’m 23 and I want to earn as soon as possible and get a job as well. It is important however to first focus on what your duty is. I’m hoping your parents don’t want you to earn now and that they just want you to focus on studying well. trust me, one year from now you’ll be happy whether you score well in the entrance or not. One way or the other a happy future always gets to you. focus on studying now as that is your sole duty at 18 and you don’t have to earn just yet but that’s just my opinion :) hope this helped on the studying front!

AND about the crush ;) i had a crush on my schoolmate when i was 18 and we’ve been dating for 7 years since. lots of fights and lots of issues but still powering through. the one thing i learnt though was if it is meant to be it will happen. one, flirting is good. keep it going and its a healthy way of expressing your feelings. but TWO, its always important to focus on yourself as much as possible. he maybe your crush or love, maybe just a love or the one love that’s gonna last. but NMW you’re always gonna be stuck with you until you die. so do focus on yourself ;) LOTS of love.

PARENTS are always strict. always fight for what you want and try to explain to them instead of throwing a fit. and YES in a matter of few years you’'ll be deciding your life. they can be a little narrow-minded sometimes, but its just how they were brought up.

HOPE EVERYTHING GETS BETTER. HOPE I WASNT TOO PREACHY. HOPE THIS HELPED. ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR ENTRANCE. LOVE.

Hi. I can understand your situation well because I went through the same situation just a few months back. I would like to say that please stop getting tensed for your entrance exams. You have plenty of opportunities on the basis of your 12th grades too. But this doesn’t mean that you are not going to prepare for your entrance examination. Just start reading news daily from newspaper or from some app. There are apps for logical, verbal and maths. You can go for pocket logical reasoning app, pocket verbal ability app. If you have feelings for someone and you don’t want to tell him that’s completely okay. You don’t always have to tell that person about your feelings for him. Don’t stop yourself from thinking of him but at the same time don’t let those thoughts overpower you.
If you desperately want a break from your monotonous schedule then go with your friends and hang out with them and then spend next two months studing hard for your entrance examination.
You should talk to your mother regarding your friends. You can tell her how they support you or how they are doing in their lives. Maybe your mother will allow you to talk to your male friends.
Thank you

hey buddy! hifi🖐.
i can totally understand ur feelings…
even i have same feelings that i should start earning make my parents proud…but i too dont have direction…but dont worry dude things will happen on right time…nd talking about spending time on internet…then ya i also do that frequently…but then i started doing yoga…started getting active…done meditation …then i started focusing on my studies…even now sometimes i get distracted but then i think positive nd get back to studies…hope u study well…hope god helps u with concentration…hope god helps u with everything u need…nd talking about ur parents…somewhere they are right but when things are like not allowing u too go out is not good…they havee old mindset nd we are from new genration…so somewhere our mindsets dont match…but dont worry buddy soon u would be a free bird nd prove ur mom dad u ccan do anything…more power to u💪
be a warrior not a worrier