I want to ask what you should do when an ex repeatedly comes back into your life just to tell you how the end of the relationship was your fault. I have been vulnerable in front of him all along and always admitted that yes it was my fault. This time I fought back but not that freely. He brought up a lot of things from the past and again blamed it all on me, then without even listening to my points, blocked me from everywhere saying he can’t do this anymore. Now Ik he does that to clear his own conscience but half of the things he said weren’t even true, he comes to call me toxic while the reasons he gives are not justified. And now after a day of this argument I realise I should have brought up certain points too. Which were very very solid. How should I proceed now. It’s only been 2 months since the breakup and even though it was really messy and full of misunderstandings, I was starting to move on. I really have this urge to reach him somehow and say all of this to him, how he is so fcking wrong and what his faults are but my mind also tells me to just let this go now. What should I do…
If you really what to talk then trust me make a call and talk. Just tell him to hear you and shut his mouth. And you burst your feelings out that is the best thing you can do. And also that way he will also realise his mistakes. I did this and it did make my heart light. We don’t have to take the whole pain. We aren’t in the fault. And if someone does a mistake they should realise. So I would suggest you talk to him. Or atleast burst your heart out and you will feel a lott better
He has blocked me from everywhere. Whenever I did burst out he used to tell me oh I was about to come back to you but now that you’ve said these things then I won’t.
whenever he says he was going to come back just tell him you don’t want him back anymore and ask if he has so many issues with you and calls you toxic then why is he coming back?
Nobody should ever have to deal with what u are dealing with right now. You need to take a stand for yourself because here he is the toxic one. Build a wall that he cannot climb.
You need to be in charge of your mental peace.
Thank you for replying! it really helped a lot to understand things better
Hey girl!! You deserve better, when you know weren’t wrong in any of the situations he blamed you, you don’t need to prove that to him because he is not in a stage to understand your kindness. Even if he were to understand you and apologize you for blaming you, he wouldn’t blame you in the first place dude. He just wants to make you feel bad and frame you as the reason of the breakup. I can clearly see what kind of an asshole he is, he can’t even accept the fact that you were being nice to him even after the breakup and he’s blaming you on top of that. I think he needs to know that a relationship ends because there are issues from both the sides and he needs to respect that. You deserve a man who can accepts you as who you are and not blame you for meaningless things. I think you should move on and get some peace. If you want to go back and confront him saying you did nothing wrong I don’t think he’s going to accept that too, he’s not that of an adult. If he had such an amazing brain, he wouldn’t blame you in the first place dear.
Everytime a person does a mistake they try to push it on to the opponent coze they can’t bare the pain and take the blame. Soo girl it’s okay if he is blaming you that means he knows what he did and the only thing he can do now to not feel guilty is blame you for everything. Let him. The people near you and with you know who your are. You know who you are and trust me that is all we need❤️
Thank you so much! This really helped a lot. 😊
