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I wanna go study abroad after my 12th
currently I’m having science with biology
My parents don’t even wanna let me go outside the city, they’re like you’re a girl, you should not go anywhere
I soo soo badly wanna go study med abroad, like its been my dream for soo long
I just think its impossible
I would never be able to convince them
And I’ve my boards in 2023
I don’t know what to do?
Can anyone help me with it?

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its me @itsme097

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Focus on the challenges at hand, example : exams.

Don’t let this anxiety disrupt your present. Eventually I am hoping a heartfelt Dailogue will be possible with your parents. Nothing Dailogue cannot fix.

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Anonymous
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Umm can you please elaborate?

its me @itsme097

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Dailogue : Conversation.

I am hoping a conversation should be possible post your exams.

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Anonymous
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Yes ofc I understood what β€˜dialogue’ meant
But I mean can you tell me how can I convince them?

its me @itsme097

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You will find the words. There isn’t a set template I know.

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Anonymous
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Oh okay

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Anonymous
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just show them with your marks that what you are capable of doing…prove yourself thats the only way ig

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Anonymous
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Yes I’m trying
what else would you suggest?

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Anonymous
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bus padho or mehnnat karo …apna 100% do baaki leave rest on god let him decide the best for you…and remember whatever he will decide will be the best for you…so just focus on your part…

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Anonymous
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Yes
Thank you so much!

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Ishan @mactavish28

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Look for exams that will get you admission in abroad for medical, Register for them and prepare for it. And show to your parents with proof what you are capable of, You gotta take stand for yourself. No one else will :)

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Anonymous
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Yes I’ll surely find out something that’ll help me with that
I’ll do everything, but I’m afraid they won’t be convinced

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Anonymous
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Can they afford it?

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Anonymous
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Yes I guess so
They’ve a lot but they always hesitate to spend it on me
Though they never compromise on my studies
Like I was in one of the best institutes in india (Allen, if you know) since my 6th grade
Rn I’m in the best school of my city too
So yeah

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Anonymous
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It’s very clear how they were never hesitant…why would you say it then

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Anonymous
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now they say, they don’t wanna pay for anything

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Anonymous
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You can easily go… I’m a Girl myself and even my parents doesn’t let me go outside the city… Infant not evn till late night… Just bcoz I’m a girl and they are insecure about us… Just study hard and tell them I want to study more and want to go abroad and get all the information needed… Rn I’m in my graduating year and already made it clear I want to do mba and wherever the clg I get selected to I will go… For my career and I’m sure your parents won’t deniy for studies

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Anonymous
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Oh okayy
That’s good you’re clear about your future
All the best!
And thank you

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