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Varun Jain @varun24

I need opinion of others about this…

I have a good friend…we used to talk all night…even during sleeping we connect via call so that we don’t feel alone…she became so close to me…that I had started feeling for her but never said cause…i was afraid our friendship might ended or or might not remain that craziness…anyway
For last year we haven’t talk properly even for 10 min. Or meet for once…she had join college to pursue MBA…after that all this starting happening.
She finally had friends around her someone who can help her in difficult time ( as i lived in different states so I was not available all time ).
I know she is happy and I want her be happy it just…in past it’s day or night we always connected…but now it’s just me only…
Sometimes I feel like maybe she doens’t need me anymore…i feel like my work here is done…now go which makes sad.

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heavy @rajat8655

This happens with a lot of guys. I myself and one of my close friends have faced exact similar situation. Biggest mistake is we start having feelings. But the other person will act as if they also have similar feelings. But when the time comes and we finally dare to express, then they take u turn like we don’t even know each other. Tata bye bye khatam

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Varun Jain @varun24

That’s what I never like about people…if someone is there for if you can’t generate feeling ok…but atleast be friends…or pretend

@bhaskarmp

Bro, yesterday i wrote a on the same lines. Example 1 un that is exactly same as of yours. Even the MBA thing. for a moment it seemed as if i have written.😅
I have penned down my opinion in
https://nowandme.com/hi-all-i-figured-out-that-when-something-is-tHrBxWiKoKilHj5

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Varun Jain @varun24

It’s like seeing your life in alternate world…😅
Exactly happens and exactly I am.

@bhaskarmp

Seems you are my alter-ego.
Give a read. And tell me your opinion. 😅

Nice meeting you here. Looks like MBA changes people to an extent of saying “ekdum vakt badal diya, janata badal diya”

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Varun Jain @varun24

Really man…it’s like…that person has totally changes…it s not them anymore

@abhishek_k

Same happend with me i know what you are suffering from we were also very close to each other we used to talk 1-2hours daily but now see from last 2 years we haven’t talk even 10min se moved to another city for education and I went another I think she forget me.If you find the solution to how to deal with it please tell me also 🥺

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Varun Jain @varun24

I don’t know the solution man…but this thing was the one that bother me for last few month and there were no one i could talk about this cause we don’t have any common friend ( i meet her in event ).
Atleast I wrote here my thoughts i feel little light.

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Varun Jain @varun24

I think these problem are common in guys like us( not dragging 😁 ) .

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Varun Jain @varun24

And…I am not alone dealing with this problem kinda feel relax😅😅😅😅😁

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