I haven't told anyone that I am suffering from PTSD. But I want to seek help without telling my parents or anyone. What can I do

you can go and get diagnosed/treatment without needing someone else there with you, whatever your age. If you can, go to your doctor and have an open conversation :)

First and foremost - be glad that you have figured out the real problem.
If you are shy of reaching out specifically on it, atleast take steps towards remeditation e.g. stay with your family/group more often than earlier, avoid being alone, practice yoga/meditation/breathing exercises (however boring), sing your favorite songs more often (however bad a singer you are).
This shall pass and will provided you take the first step ie wear a mask and GO OUT!

PTSD

Anyone here from Philippines? Let's have a late night conversation, just a random conversation till we fall asleep 

3am Thoughts

Hey..,.ya kive aa sb 🤔😂

Dreams

I need some honest advice
Is my career ruined because I have gap in profile because I was preparing for govt exams?
What can I do to have a good career now?
I wish I hadn't dropped out of my masters so that I didn't have a gap but it's all in the past now
Can I still be successful?


Depression

“Dance like no one is watching. 
Love like you’ve never been hurt.
 Sing like no one is listening. Work like you don’t need the money. Live life every day as if it were your last.”



✊🏻

Life

I am kinda wondering if this all is my fault, or what I am doing wrong. 
For some reason I get ignored a lot. By friends, family. I pretty much didn't mind earlier, but now it kinda pisses me off. I mean, what am I doing wrong. Why everyone take me for granted that much. I want to join the conversation with my friends or parents, they pretty much talk over me. I say something to my friends, they don't react. All of them would outrun me anywhere we go. I seriously feel like a ghost sometimes, going last almost everywhere, not heard. Then when I don't answer someone, I am called mean and made fun of, because I am "dramatic". I guess they a don't see a problem with their behaviour, but I personally see it problematic. It makes me feel sad and angry. It makes me feel like they are all superior and better than me. Tbh, it only makes me overthink a lot. I am trying to be the best version of myself, and this doesn't help with that
But maybe it's all my fault, maybe there's something in my behaviour, maybe I am the problematic one. I don't know. And even this lack of knowledge pisses me off. I think I have never been this negative in my life ever. I am trying to find out what I am doing wrong and how to stop this pattern so it won't happen again. So I won't feel like everyone just takes me for granted. 
And sadly, talking to them how I feel doesn't come to the picture. I tried it, it didn't help. It might have made things even worse

Friends

So a week ago I confessed my feelings to my crush. Mostly because I wanted to know where I stand with him. It was very frustrating to not know what to expect. I had been getting mixed signals. As a result, he told me that I am cute and sweet and as much he would love to know me more, he has other priorities and doesn't want to focus on "these things". And I do understand, that man literally has a lot of responsibility. Now I feel that life is always like that and it never lets us rest. There is a lot of responsibility on me too which are lesser than him, but I didn't care about that before telling him my feelings. I know now that simply saying that it's not the right time is just about delaying your happiness because we never really are free. I do understand that at this point when we both are young, career occupies the highest priority but that doesn't mean that you can't let yourself fall for someone and delay a possible happiness with them even if it isn't among your top priorities. To me it feels like he either doesn't like me at all or is afraid of it. I even told him that I wasn't sure what I wanted since I don't know him very well. I won't try to rush things in any case and I was very honest with what I felt. Even I didn't expect to find someone like him and it just happened. I didn't want a relationship but he is the one person I was willing to consider that possibility with and I was hoping that it can turn into something beautiful. But even when I confessed it didn't feel enough, he definitely did not make it clear if he ever felt something for me. I wanted to ask but then I thought what's the use when he is not even ready to be in a relationship. I don't know what to do now. We ended our chat that we will be friends and hw assured me that nothing would be weird between us but I don't think it would help me move on. Also, I don't want to lose him as a friend. It looks like a peaceful resolution but I don't how it will turn out. A lot of confusion for me right now.

Crush

Is our brain a type of filter? 

We know that in current times scientists have researched a lot about the human brain and that that it is a lot more than just a thinking or controlling organ. They say that human brain is still 99% a mystery. We still cant understand how it works and what all it can do. Again, we haven't been unaware of people with inhuman or superhuman capabilities. It is all because of this little mysterious organ which resides inside the human or any other animal skull.
Now, here is my theory. It is actually a kind of comparison with a lot of things in an attempt to prove a point: Our brain is just like a "FILTER".
Now don't get confused with the term "filter". By filter, I am referring to electrical filter. To be more specific, I am trying to prove that our brain is kind of a band pass filter.
A Band pass filter, as the name suggests, allows only a certain range of frequency to pass and rejects all the other. 

Now, the question arise that why am I here, right now, trying to prove, that the most complex thing in the universe, or one of the most, is nothing but a simple electrical equipment or it's equivalent.
So like I said earlier, we all know that some people can do stuff which others cannot. And with exception of disabilities, it is said that all humans have similar brain capacity, size, effectiveness as well as functions. Then why are all of us unique? 

To answer that I came up with this theory. Lets assume that all of our brains are filters, that too band pass filters. So according to the settings it gets, it adjusts itself to certain range of frequency, out of what it won't function. So if our frequency is set on average, we behave average and etc cases involved. 

Another example is Telepathy. We know that some people have proven through tricks or whatever that mind reading or mind to mind communication is possible. Now what if it is possible because they unlocked the band frequency that allows it? We all know meditation and yoga as well as other peace stuff can enhance or even unlock new abilities in people. What if these excercises are just like the adjustment to our band pass filters? What if these are increasing the frequency range to that that allows these activities? If we think about it, it seems quite good of a theory now. 

And if I considered telepathy, how can I not say anything about it's sister/brother, whichever you may assume it to be, which is Telekinesis. So all that yoga stuff copy paste, we know that through proper training, telekinesis is possible. So considering it as another unknown frequency makes the same amount of sense as Telepathy. 

If we need to take examples on how all the stuff we do and all what we can do, we see a pattern of frequencies which are partially locked and unlocked for us. 

Finally, coming to a more scientific type of example, we know that our ears can process a sound of 20Hz to 20kHz. Also we know that sound above or below these frequencies also exist. We have many times proved that human ear "can" recieve frequency above or below that too, but majorly not. So in this case, our brain, the processing unit of sound, acts exactly like a band pass filter that too LOUD AND CLEAR. 

Now if I write anymore, this would be pretty much be like an article in which reporter had nothing but a single point and he wound the world around it. So I'll wrap this up with this. 

Thankyou for giving your time to read this, and to be frank, this is one of those restroom thoughts people always talk about.
Thanking you all again, I Wish all of you a very good day.

-killerboyratzx

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-Harsh Sawhney

College

So mai start krne vali hu  apni medical line ki journey but maine google pe boht articles padhe and all like on a website called as quora aur waha pe sab ne mana kiya medical line mat lo better become an engineer, i regret chosing medical etc. so mujhe abhi confusion hai kyunki board ke  exams to cancel ho gye ab 11th start hoga to uske liye chose krna hai..
pasand hai bio par usme salary itni nhi milti jitna hardwork..meri sari friends to medical le rhi hai kyunki un sab ke papa doctors hai or jinke papa mummy doctor nhi hai wo engineering kr rhe hai ,commerce etc. par mere papa to doctor nhi hai..so mai kya kru..maine padha quora pe sab bol rhe the boht struggle ke bad bhi no respect and no expected salary jab 40+ ke ho jaoge tab aish milega tab tak struggle kro..matlab teenge gaya..young age gaya..old hone ke baad aaram..mai thodi pareshaan hu..thodi madad krdo plzz

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