I have this friendish who is really different from me, she has different friends and just overall likes to go out and party. I dont so I never go with her friends this thereās this wall in between us it kind off feels like she doesnāt care. sheās really nice but doesnāt proactively go after you or ask you to come have lunch but only invites when she goes out to party. so in a nutshell I donāt know what to do should I try harder or just let go off this friendship?
I think if she is ur friend ā¦she will not let you goā¦and more importantly, you should try giving space to everyoneā¦she is not your possesionā¦She has her own way of livingā¦And if u ever feel like being ignored then that must not be her fault maybe she doesnāt know how u feelā¦I have been through the sameā¦So , what I did was to JUST REPEAT THE QUOTE **PEOPLE WHO ARE MEANT TO STAY TOGETHER , STAY TOGETHER NO MATTER WHAT ** This helped me a lotā¦maybe it will help you tooā¦just donāt get sad or worry about this I am sure there are other problems worth getting your attentionā¦I know itās hard but believe meā¦EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAYā¦JUST DONāT LOOSE FAITH
Eva š @k9nzaki
itās normal to have opposite friends eg. outgoing friends vs antisocial friends. if thatās what she enjoys doing she shouldnāt have to stop however i do think thatās sheās not considering what you like to do ; staying at home i believe ? maybe you should ask her to lunch, if she turns you down and says sheās going to a party donāt get down. i think the only red flag in the relationship would be if you guys stopped talking ( sheās always at parties so sheās forgotten about you ) because that means you guys are drifting away. also donāt overwork yourself in a friendship ; if you donāt feel she is giving back the same energy than you thatās also another red flag. sorry if my advice was useless/unhelpful xx
