I have been feeling very anxious since the beginning of this year, my best friend has been acting strange and it seems she doesn’t care about it and is being distant with me. I have told her multiple times that I have been suffering like this and she takes it lightly and just dismisses it by saying its overthinking
It feels like she has abandoned me for her other friends.
I have been excessively worried due to this and now it has started to affect my daily routine too.
Kira Barker @kira
hai love, ik how that feels completely. it sounds like you just need to get some new friends or maybe next time tell her that u have something very important to talk to her about and tell her not to judge u or just push it off and if she still says the same thing then I would definitely make some new friends. you don’t deserve to be pushed out of the way bc she has “better” things to do.
Agreed. I legit have to resist my urge to justify what I feel as she always just denies that no changes are there. You think a lot. You should work on it. All of it makes me think it’s time to let her go but I care way too much about her and it just so mentally challenging to do so. I have been going into depression I feel. I just don’t know what to do about this :(
I have been at your place. My so-called brother and best friend, abandoned me. He kept putting me in tough spot. He kept acting like he didn’t care for me. But he never accepted his attitude shift. His girlfriend was very manipulative towards me. I had just two friends at that time- he and his gf. I stopped eating. I was in a bad state. I had mental health issues. And, one day I realised that they seriously don’t care.they won’t come back. They’ll never care for me. It was a huge fight before we finally separated. We don’t talk to each other. However, I got some cool friends after that. We are like a gang. They all take care of my every single need. They make me feel special.
