I had once compelled a friend to quit smoking because his mental health was getting affected due to the addiction. He used to smoke so as to block all the bad things for a while. I told him to talk out the problem or write it down to feel light and smoking was not a solution. It's been five months that he has come out clear. I am so proud of him. 

thats wonderful! continue to do this with as many people as you can

I am so happy that you tried to help him. You have been a true friend to him. He is so lucky! 

So proud of him and YOU! We all need a friend like you. Much love❤️ 

Mental Health

When You Truly Love Someone Their Mistakes Never Change Your Feelings... 💔

3am Thoughts

There once was a boy, full of fright,
His heart beating with all its might,
He was having a panic attack,
And his anxiety was on the attack.

But fear not, young lad,
For I am here, your poet, your dad,
I'll spin a tale, a funny rhyme,
To help you through this trying time.

Picture this, a chicken in a hat,
Doing a dance, how about that?
Or a cat wearing shoes,
Singing the blues.

Think of a dog, with a top hat and cane,
Walking down the street, without a care or strain,
Or a pig, playing the drums,
With all the other farmyard chums.

You see, my dear boy,
Laughter is the best way to enjoy,
To ease your mind, and calm your heart,
And make your anxiety depart.

So don't worry, don't fret,
Just sit back, and don't forget,
That life is full of silly things,
And laughter is the best medicine for all things.

What’s the best way to describe yourself?

Career

Need some relationship advice

I'm a male. Was always sure that I'm 100% straight. Until, for some reason, me and my friend (who turned out to be gay) started kissing while drunken at a party. But it felt fantastic. We did it several times, and I loved every minute of it. So I assumed that I might be bi. Before that, I'd never felt any attraction to other men. I had been thinking about it a lot and decided to give dating him a shot. I was overjoyed when he agreed. I've never been in a relationship before. And the first two weeks were spectacular. I loved every minute I spent with him, and when he wasn't around, I couldn't stop thinking about him. I was turned on just thinking about him in bed. And I still feel that way, at least most of the time, since I've started having those days when I'm not sure if I made the right decision, where I want to love him but am unsure whether I'm capable of doing so. Maybe I never loved him, maybe I'm not even bi, but then what do these days where I feel love mean? During these "dry" days, I treat him more like a regular friend than a lover, and I even consider breaking up with him, even though I don't want to. I despise that feeling. I think I may have ROCD, at least a lot of symptoms seem to match very well. This feeling usually disappears after a day or two, and I feel pure love again, but I absolutely despise that this feeling of doubt even exists. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What if this feeling keeps getting more frequent? Do I even truly love him, or is it all just in my head? I'm worried. I definitely don't want to break up with him, but I'm just scared. I know this may sound stupid, but I really care about him and I would hate if a thing like this would ruin our relationship. Is this a normal thing? Is it unreasonable for me to expect love to be present every day? When I'm in love, I feel like the happiest man on earth; however, when I have doubts, I'm filled with uncertainties, misery, and the worry of ruining my relationship.

Relationships

Any suggestions on books related to psychotherapy? 

Hello everyone....so I'm in a relationship with a guy ..and the thing is.. it's not going smooth . Yesterday we had a terrible fight and felt so much ignored ... because he doesn't really prioritise me and is not really considerate of me ...we do to the same classes but we act like we don't know each other ...and we don't talk much in class...also we don't as much because he doesn't like to go to cafes and all ..and i don't feel that this kind of behaviour is right ... because we both are in a relationship so he should also consider what I want ...so what should I do...can anyone helpe figure out this

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