I had my breakup, a year back.
There is this saying thatā¦ if you touch someone soulās before there body, thatās a true love. Same happened to me.
I fell in love with the soul of this person.
But we had to breakup as we have our differences like. I am a north indian and he is a South indian.
I have never had feelings for anyone in this one year of gap.
I still love him and when ever I feel like I should move on, there is this another feeling that kills me on thinking that I should move on.
I talk to my ex boyfriend sometimes.
We start good but he end up making me feel like piece of shit .
Like I am just a randome girl behind him.
I forgive him.
I over think a lot.
I donāt any frnds ā¦because he didnāt wanted me to be with any one my old frnds to be happ with ā¦
I left it all.
I.feel so depressed.that I had to see therapist.
Can someone please help me ā¦
Yeahh im here
I hope you have read above
Talking to your ex boyf is the least you can do. Coz as you said you start good. It might create false hopes in you and the reason you holding on him for a year is the same bcoz you kept speaking with him . No problem itās completely fine.
Yes, this is what my therapist said to me ā¦ but I canāt stop talking. To him. I am still in love with him. And he has recently confessed thar he too have feelings for me ā¦how about that
Well sometimes youknow what boys do we express whatever we want but when it comes to relationships sometimes we do mess it up. And if he really have feelings for you , why would he make you feel like you r just a random girl for him? If he had real feelings na , he wouldnāt have brokeup in the first place.
Thatās the thing ā¦
He says that he canāt upset his mom
We can have a future togetherā¦ but without his familyās approval he canāt do anything. So we had to leave each other.
Well heās kinda playing tricky. You said he doesnt treat you well. Nd heās mother will get upset bcoz of other caste. i guess hereās heās playing victim card thing. Like using motherās reason to avoid things.im not sure in this but this happend with me so im telling ya this.
Akash Dalal @skybroker
hey i m sorry you are going through this alone.
i wish I can help you with your pain.
hey but donāt feel alone, now you have us.
we can be friends if you want. :)
I would love to be friends ā¦
Thanks.
Akash Dalal @skybroker
i m glad to be side by you. :)
have something to say about boys we tend to attract after when it is all loss we want it and also donāt want it back becoz we are egoist to break others feels a piece of non-importance. and also are highly uncommitted towards the person. :)
please stop calling to him you can talk here we will listen to you. but plx dont do this with yourself.
I am.trying really hard .
I canāt resist the feelings I had for him.
So I end up calling him.
Akash Dalal @skybroker
what I can say now is do as your therapist says becoz they have more understanding than we do we can understand your pain but we have a limitation, we can hear you, be with you in this time wonāt promise to leave but we will try our best to be with you, just reach us out. and we will be there fo you.
Sometimes we choose wrong persons who is right by us but deep down we know its not good. At such times only you can handle things. If you keep talking with him, youll have false hopes and youll fall for him again. Better option avoid his msges since heās makes you feel shitty. Give yourself some time to process things
I have tried it all.
I canāt resist.
I genuinely have feelings.
I donāt know why he treats me like shit
Its happens. Well then another thing can be that you havenāt shared this with anyone right? Keeping hesvy thoughts upto yourself is always selfsuffering . Dont worry im here. Tell me whatever you feel
Heavy*
You genuinely having feelings for him . Can it change the fact that he treats you unwell? No right? Ik its not at all easy but you have to try moving on
When the person has left you , u shouldnāt be in touch with himā¦ if he had to choose you ā¦ he would be with you but he makes u feel like shitā¦ u deserve more than thisā¦
Yeah I get you point.
But i still love him
Which is not that easy to move on.
I know how hard it is to forget someone but when u least care about it and leave itā¦ ull never be botheredā¦ but will take timeā¦ u alone can be strongā¦ if you need Iām here to listen coz Iām going through the same thingā¦
