I feel confused because I don’t know what to do. You know all of us have some family problems. Most of all actually and you know in my Mom’s family we have so many personal problems and I know that. All of them are pretty nice. But you know is it normal if they will talk about you behind your back? Is it normal if I could only think of their bad attitudes and bad things that they do everyday? Is it normal if I could only think negative things in my family. Except my mom, dad and brother of course. Is it still normal? You know I am trying my best to change but you know they always keep me pushing away that’s why I can’t think what to do. Whenver they ar in there. I don’t even know what to say and just laugh even though it’s not funny. Even though they don’t have interest to talk to me. I want closure you know but whenever I tried no one had ever reach me out.
Amrinderpreet @youareimportant
It depends on the nature and attitude of people. Its like we cant really ask someone to change as its their personal choice. But for sure, you can let them know that how bad you feel when things like that happen around you and ask them to be respectful and nice.
Depends on your age too if it will be appropriate for you to talk to elders like this depending on your cultural perspective. You can even ask some one older to talk to the family members for being nice and supportive to each other.
