Ananta @ananta1001
I dont want to do it anymore. I want to end it all. The moment I needed her the most, she left. She took her space to move on while still giving me the hope that we’ll be back together. And then she dumped me. How can I move on and love myself when I gave her all my love, happiness and literally all of me? I am in college and havent attended classes in a week, my grades are falling, i cant eat or sleep. Can a girl tell me her perspective on this?
Niklaus @niklaus_
I understand … But it is what it is… i understand you just want to feel free from all of these feelings… but there is no way… you have to go through this shit and hope that you will comeback as a much stronger person than you are now…
Ananta @ananta1001
Ive just become so numb, i dont know what to go through, how to get over her
Niklaus @niklaus_
Don’t beg … Try “No contacts” rule… it works always…
Ananta @ananta1001
How does that work?
Niklaus @niklaus_
Accept the reality…Disappear for a month… she will comeback…
Ananta @ananta1001
Ill try doing that, thank you so much
Afrin @hello_yeah
Heyy am sorry for what u have been through and I have been through the same, my grades fell too and trust me am still not over him but just accept the fact that she doesn’t deserve you! U deserver better and u would want to give up on everything but why would u do that for a person who doesn’t value anymore? SSoo u’ll find someone 1000times better than her and u’ll be fine:)
Ananta @ananta1001
Ik everyone keeps saying I deserve better. But i feel like i wont be able to give my heart and soul out to anyone again in the same manner I did to her
Afrin @hello_yeah
Omgg I was like this too but just imagine, she doesn’t even value u now, so would u regret giving ur heart and soul to another person who loves exactly the same way u do?
Afrin @hello_yeah
And one more thing, don’t date anyone too fast, the next person u are dating should be like a forever one till u get married or smth, just be sure with it…this is what I learnt:)
Ananta @ananta1001
Yeah ik dating is literally the last thing on my mind rn
Ananta @ananta1001
Ive had this exact same conversation with myself a thousand times :) its just that my heart cant accept it
Afrin @hello_yeah
Yeahhhh so let that be, letting her back won’t work out, it’ll just be you forgiving and she hurting
Afrin @hello_yeah
I feel you, but don’t worry just let her go for ur goood
:D @pratio
If you want to know her perspective even when you’re suffering this much, it just means you’re just finding a reason to stay. To give yourself a reason.
Please don’t do it. It’s literally a self harm.
Ananta @ananta1001
Yeah ik i do, even after everything she’s put me through, i still love her the same. And I just dont know how to lose those feelings
:D @pratio
Learn how to put yourself first. It’ll get easier.
Ananta @ananta1001
Thank you so much
Laraib Raja. @ilaraibraja
You are not able to move forward and unable to works because you were not just loving her but also you let yourself live in a loop ,You let your life only surrounding by hers ,which is not just love but also ,neglecting yourself. So, try get out of yourself from this bubble and see then things that you might be not be able to un love her for certain time but , try to engaged yourself in productive things ,like go to college ,work on yourself , explore yourself ,like what you love to do, give yourself a space and you will be able to fell in love with yourself again ,this process will be gonna hard but ,don’t give up it will be worth it .You will comeout stronger .💛
Ananta @ananta1001
Ik all my friends keep telling prioritize and love yourself first, but she just took everything I had and left, and idk i feel like she left me just as an empty shell of myself where im incapable of even loving myself.
Sean_75 @raindrops_moon
I really felt sorry for that, especially the time when you needed her the most but she wasn’t there for you… I can’t really know what she is thinking, but I know that you, deserve more than that. You deserve all those love and happiness you’ve given her. Remember, we’re here to support you-!
This may take time to move on, but it’s just the matter of time and your own choice of wether you want to go on. Just don’t let things affect yourself too much, and tell us more about your feelings if needed, many people here are really supportive!
