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@melody

i dont know what to talk with my bf cause we are always out of topic and we just repeat the same question again and again which is kinda boring
can somebody tell me what to do

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Avtar @avtar

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I think its due to lack of interest in each other.
Otherwise in relationship both will share each and every single thing which happened or they did till that moment when the talk with their loved one. They are open to say anything without any hesitation that is called bond and freedom to speak anything without thinking like to conversations with yourself.

And if you feel the gap between you and him, then try to build a confidence so that you both will share their thoughts or you may also choose any topic to discuss like what they think about life after marriage aim of life dream if life etc etc

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@melody
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i know but these kinda question he doesn’t likes to talk sometimes when he is in happy mood

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Amrinderpreet @youareimportant

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I will suggest you to find each other’s interests and also, play silly games over the phone that helps you to know more about each-other.
Like there are lots of questions to ask your bf on google. And also, you can just make up your own. Ask him, whats his fav food and you tell him whats yours? And many more questions and for sure stories will come out from there like i tried it there this that bla bla…and that will make ur bond more deep and the connection will begin from there.

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@melody
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he told me he is not in the mood for game he doesn’t feel like
i think something is buging him a lot and he doesn’t tell me also yesterday and today he went totally off and mssg me only at afternoon like i am really sad because of that

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Avtar @avtar

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If this is the situation so the best way is move on otherwise you will suffer tour whole life for his care love and emotions

And mang k care li to uska kya he fayda. Every human have very precious life do and realise value of it. Khud ko esa bnao ki dunia tumhare vesa soche jesa tum unke liye abi soch rai ho

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@melody
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pata nahi paar woh kuch alaag sa hy he thinks about future and like to go on like that kinda maybe he is bored by this quarantine
do u think he need to fresh his mind
how will i be able to do that

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Avtar @avtar

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Everyone needs their own space as you everybody have their own thinking and desires. So let them do whatever he want.

You must focus on your life and move ahead.

@ash
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Agree with @avtar. Future ka sochna achi baat hai but itna bhi nahi ki apna aaj bhi na ji sako khushi khushi.
@melody, that connection comes naturally dear. That’s why we like that companionship. How long will you keep pushing to make things work? Why so much stress?

@ash
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If you keep trying so hard, you’ll get exhausted and it wouldn’t be worth it. You won’t feel happy because all your energy is drained trying to keep your relationship alive and worrying about him.
You have to take care of yourself first and think bit clearly what you want from life and what kind of relationship you would like to have with your partner. Communicate to him on this and if you both think this can work, alright then. If not, toh please kharch mat ho itna. Move on because your soul mate would be waiting to talk to you for hours out there but won’t be able to until you’re stuck here.

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Spend some time with your bf in real life,make memories, then discover new topic. If you can’t go out because of lockdown , do some stuffs of same type. Like cook some same items by seeing recipe from YouTube and talk about experience. Read some similar book and share what you understood. Draw things and this way discover new items and share in talk. In this way you can get more topics and bonding will be strengthen .

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Avtar @avtar

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We live in india, not in western countries so I think parents k thoughts ko sath m le k chalna b jruru h its not easy to live with anyone on trial mode

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Amrinderpreet @youareimportant

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@melody…
I think its time for you to either dig more into his situations if he is going through some sort of pain/depression or something and take things slowly. And other way is to kind of step back if that is effecting you deeply because you don’t want to end up in such a relationship where the base or starting is so bitter.
Sharing emotions and understanding is the basic key of the relationship.

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