I don’t know how to stop clinging to my past. The past in which i Broke my parents trust, got used and exploited by online friends, trusted on wrong people( online friends). In a nutshell i did everything to please them even if it would hurt my parents. I can’t forget it. Those bad memories still show up as real. I just want to forget them…
All of your past mistakes are learnings for your future and not life sentences. Understand this.
Do you feel like correcting your past more often than not?
I feel like going back in the past and undo those things
Thats because you cant accept them for whatever they are. This mindset needs working, when you work on it, it will become easy for you to get away from your past.
Look at whats there to learn for you rather than whats to suffer .
Even though I don’t want to remember those things they show up in my head. Their words their actions. I hope you can understand what I’m trying to say. Like those things interfere in my present
You know life is all about making mistakes and learning from that. You did something and what can be more better than realising that you were wrong. The best thing you can do is, to make peace with your past. Learn from it and promise to never make the same mistake again. That’s how we evolve and mature as a person. No one really tells us but committing mistake is very human and realising it, is greatness.
Trust can be rebuilt. It takes time but trust the process. And atlast they are your parents. They have seen you grow up and they are literally the closest humans to you and talking about online friends. Trust me, nowadays even friends around us are not trustworthy. Then how can you expect online friends to be good to you. It’s just the feeling of goodness inside you. And you are disappointed but just see yourself. You have always been the good person. It was never your fault. You trust people and expect them to be like you (good). But the world is too cruel to have your soft side. And trust me. You are still a good person for your parents. Something of that sort happened to me too when i was on my 9th grade. But now i understand the difference between family and friends for my own good. Love, everything will be alright as soon as you realise that everyone doesn’t deserve to see your good side :-)
I hope everything will be fine. I appreciate y’all for hearing me out :)