Leah @leah1993
I decided to end my 8 year relationship and I don’t feel bad about it. What’s wrong with me?
Might not be fully in love ! Maybe it happens when heartbreaks!🥺
Nothing. Maybe you outgrowned each other or that phase in your life is over… you need more or just a change… maybe you lost feelings, the relationship feels more like a routine rather than a real relationship…
It is what is is honestly… as stupid as it may sound, it’s just life… it happens
Leah @leah1993
I was outgrowing him. I’ve changed so many things in my life the last 6 months and I just felt stuck with him. It was hard to explain to him that I needed to end things for me. I’m not the same person he met 10 years ago.
It’s totally normal. And I find it amazing that you had the courage to end it after that many years. It’s great!
Leah @leah1993
Thank you. I’m trying my best.
I’m rooting for you! <3
Simran @st1199
Hi,
Did you introspect and discuss with yourself why you had a break-up and if you saw it coming what action you took. And, why do you think you are indifferent to this outcome?
Leah @leah1993
I’ve been coming to this decision for the last 6 months. I kept trying to fix things but there was nothing to fix… I’m just not the same person anymore.
Simran @st1199
Trying to fix what? Yourself or the relationship?
There is absolutely no harm in changing. We all change, grow for the better.
Leah @leah1993
I’ve been trying to fix the relationship but I’m just checked out already and it’s exhausting.
Simran @st1199
That’s it. It’s due to the relationship and efforts put in by the partner that has made you indifferent to the situation now. Completely understandable. And, I am assuming you would have discussed the same before breaking up.
In these cases, if the partner doesn’t try enough to save the 8 years long relation, it’s for the best and you already are on the road to overcoming it.
Leah @leah1993
Thank you. I really appreciate it…
Simran @st1199
Happy to be there. :)
Sanket More @snktmore
Nothing is wrong with you. It is just you have accepted the fact or maybe found your closure already to move. Not many can move on so fast.
Have a good life🥂.
You chose quality over quantity. You did it for you!❣️
