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Leah @leah1993

I decided to end my 8 year relationship and I don’t feel bad about it. What’s wrong with me?

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Anonymous

Might not be fully in love ! Maybe it happens when heartbreaks!🥺

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Anonymous

Nothing. Maybe you outgrowned each other or that phase in your life is over… you need more or just a change… maybe you lost feelings, the relationship feels more like a routine rather than a real relationship…
It is what is is honestly… as stupid as it may sound, it’s just life… it happens

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Leah @leah1993

I was outgrowing him. I’ve changed so many things in my life the last 6 months and I just felt stuck with him. It was hard to explain to him that I needed to end things for me. I’m not the same person he met 10 years ago.

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Anonymous

It’s totally normal. And I find it amazing that you had the courage to end it after that many years. It’s great!

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Leah @leah1993

Thank you. I’m trying my best.

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Anonymous

I’m rooting for you! <3

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Simran @st1199

Hi,
Did you introspect and discuss with yourself why you had a break-up and if you saw it coming what action you took. And, why do you think you are indifferent to this outcome?

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Leah @leah1993

I’ve been coming to this decision for the last 6 months. I kept trying to fix things but there was nothing to fix… I’m just not the same person anymore.

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Simran @st1199

Trying to fix what? Yourself or the relationship?
There is absolutely no harm in changing. We all change, grow for the better.

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Leah @leah1993

I’ve been trying to fix the relationship but I’m just checked out already and it’s exhausting.

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Simran @st1199

That’s it. It’s due to the relationship and efforts put in by the partner that has made you indifferent to the situation now. Completely understandable. And, I am assuming you would have discussed the same before breaking up.

In these cases, if the partner doesn’t try enough to save the 8 years long relation, it’s for the best and you already are on the road to overcoming it.

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Leah @leah1993

Thank you. I really appreciate it…

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Simran @st1199

Happy to be there. :)

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Sanket More @snktmore

Nothing is wrong with you. It is just you have accepted the fact or maybe found your closure already to move. Not many can move on so fast.

Have a good life🥂.

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@solitaire

You chose quality over quantity. You did it for you!❣️

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