I cheated on love of my life, thought he didn’t loved me as much as I did and I wanted to explore . But after he left me I understood how wrong I was. I love him a lot and all I did was wrong , I destroyed lives . Now I’m sitting and crying don’t know what to do. All I want is him back but I know I’m no good for him. I lost my gold, I lost my home. This guilt is eating me up. I’m taking stupid decisions in the name of distraction. I don’t know what to do anymore. I just want him back but I’m so so so bad for him.
Hey hey hey , how do you know he never loved you as much as you did ?
Wait for the right time to come. Time will heal. Honestly my thoughts are that you should invest your time on something good. It’s hard to think what we are interested in especially when we feel useless from the moment we wake up. But accept the fact that this process takes time. It’s okay to cry. Always reminisce good moments spent. Slowly and steadily things will change. Nobody is perfect. We all make mistakes.
Rahul R Nair @elite_gentx
We all make mistakes, but if that mistake destroys someone’s life, what is the point in it to just say randomly we all make mistakes? Cheating is not a mistake, it’s a choice. Imagine how much the other side gets hurt and sometimes that’s enough to destroy the other one’s entire life. Karma is there, should accept it. And time heals wala point is not applicable in this case. Let karma do the right thing. The only thing she can do is , apologize to him, and pray.
Honestly, what you spoke is true. You spoke like his friend. I am trying to calm her down.Coz nothing can be sorted if she keeps crying the whole day. (Just read the last lines she wrote) It just blurs the mind, decisions are clouded. She needs to apologise. It’s for him to decide whether to be together or not. That is why I asked her to give time and not force him in anyway to be back. She needs to understand and accept that he deserves much better.
Honestly if you can please reach out to him. Just try to talk to him and if it’s meant to be it will stay. But do try atleast once to talk and sort it out.
My bofriend did the same like you did…i understood…eventhough it took almost a week for me to take a decision…i stood by him…i understood he really loves me…but sometimes its fate…but our relationship now is stronger than before