I barely like guys. I’m 21 and I’ve had only like 3-4 actual crushes till now. So after a long time, I liked this guy a few months ago. I was damn excited and he was damn handsome as well. It was an instant crush, pehli baar use dekha tha us din. Par woh christian tha so I kept it to myself. I didn’t want to fool around with someone if I can’t marry them in the future. My friends knew how obsessed I was with him and that’s it. I didn’t want anything to happen because I knew I really liked him and I’ll surely get hurt in the end. Fast forward a few months later, he suddenly pops into my dms, we become friends and then he says that he has liked me all this while. He has no idea about my feelings. I’m so confused, should I tell him that I too has a crush on him or not.
It’s better to say
So that u won’t feel regret abt anything in future
Go for it before it’s too late
All the best🥂
You can’t marry someone from another caste?
Even if you get self independent and all, then also you can’t take a stand for yourself?
Yes because it’s senseless argument to not marry another caste or religion, literate people won’t follow that.
The main goal is to be happy. Love doesn’t see caste or any other differences.
I follow my religion with all my heart. I won’t marry a guy from another religion.
Even if that person is your soulmate and you love him?
Which religion do you follow?
Your choice and decision matters ♥️
It’s her kind of love stop questioning buddy
First of all, I don’t believe in soulmates. And I don’t want to talk about my religion and receive hate for that🥰
Thank you for being kind
Yes. Following a religion is ‘uncool’ in today’s world unfortunately
Haha😂 you religious people you don’t know how it divides humanity, it spreads hate unintentionally no matter what u do, in the end you separate yourself from other groups, and u think/know it from ur heart that you are better and only you are following the TRUTH, rligus people are hypocrite humans, behind the idea of religion is to make a shelter for humanity and look what it did to us…what good has it done to humanity? Name me one?
Here it comes…😅🥲
I know every religion very well buddy* and all are good for one’s soul not for society
What’s your opinion?
If you love someone from another religion would you marry him/her?
Pyaar religion dekh ke hota hai?
Should one refrain from love just because the other person is from another religion???
Not at all, we all are humans! And that’s only fact I know and follow
Yes, extremist people are a doom to the society. I do agree on that
Good🕊️
Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2
If you can take stand for him and if you think he will take stand for you then go for it 😊
Just Tell him yaar, Jo hona hai dekha jayega. Why to overthink and ruin the case. Just do it!
We are good friends at the moment. And he didn’t propose to me or anything, he just said that he has had a crush on me for a while….
If he said you about himself then you too tell the truth. You’re simply overthinking about marriage, come back in the present. I don’t know on what basis you thought about marriage when you can’t confess your feelings about him to him. Don’t you think you’re using him? I hope you aren’t. Ponder on it
If he comes to know about my feelings he would definitely want to take our relationship to the next step. I don’t want that because it will only do bad for us
How do you know about the consequences?
Because we are from different religious backgrounds
Maybe l. But tell what you feel about him. he deserves to know about this, else it’s an insult to him.
May be I will someday
That someday won’t come
Mudit @mj16_
U should tell him
Bcoz no one know ur future so if marriage will not happen u situation will make u guys break up otherwise not
But yeah I think you should tell him. He deserves to know. And then jo hoga dekha jayega.