Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

i am insured person cuz people always take me as back up person which hurts Me . i want them to choose me cuz of me who i am not just cuz they don’t have choice. i felt hurt broken as i have no friends so do i accept this i will be always back up person 😔😔.
should i say this to them what I feel. I think they at all don’t care.