How do you get over someone who leaves you on read and takes you for granted and leaves you hanging stating they're going through some stuff

By valuing yourself <3
I know it hurts. But I've been thru it. And at the end of the day if they don't care about if it bothers you both, then you don't want to be in it. 
Little self respect goes a long way.


By thinking of all these things they’ve done to you. You should stop thinking about them as much as possible bc they’re toxic and get over them meet new people who doesn’t drain out all ur energy.

Relationships

A bit depressed.

So I broke up with my bf just yesterday because he verbally abused me and never care about my feelings. I have cried a lot of times at night feeling alone. But I miss him too bcoz I loved him with my whole heart. Now I am confused if I should go to him or not. 

Anxiety

so i liked this guy and he asked me out but i rejected him because i felt he didn’t like me and i deserved better than a person who was just dating me for the heck of it. when i rejected him he just said ‘okay’. i was literally in tears and then i ghosted him for 3 months to get over him. i finally started texting him back since a week because i felt bad that i did that. do y’all think i should text him because i feel my feelings might be coming 

3am Thoughts

I have a really close friend of mine. He is going through a lot of problems. He had visited a psychologist and is clinically depressed. When he told his family about it, though they are concerned still they don't support going to psychotherapists due to financial issues. I try to ask him to share his problems but he doesn't share. I have asked him to atleast speak to his other friends about it or to express it here but he isn't interested in doing any of the above. It has been almost 5months. I keep asking him but he doesn't like me asking him again and again. I am really concerned especially since one of his family member had suicide earlier. Please suggest me what to do in this situation.

Mental Health

it's been approximately 13 months of my breakup. The journey of healing has been toughest but I am stable now. I am at home studying online since March 2020. 
Sometimes I terribly miss my ex,I shed tears,think about all the red flags,his hurtful accusations and everything. Why am I still not over him. He blocked me everywhere a long time ago but I am still stuck there...why??

Breakup

I'm a daughter of divorced parents. I've been dating for 3 years now. My partner had always wanted me to stay with his parents after marriage. He had also explained how good his parents are. 
I met his parents recently and did not like them as they spoke only about my parents divorce, and insisted we hide about it and not tell anyone in the family, asked who will give money to my mom for survival, what happens once my grandmother dies, your mom will be alone. Your parents are divorced, are you sure about marrying my son, we are worried what may happen considering your background.

After hearing to them, I felt that they are treating me bad and did not even try to understand who I am and that my parents past doesn't define my present. 

Now I do not want to live with them after marriage but my parentner is against it. Am I thinking right or am I making a mistake?


Marriage

I dated my boyfriend for 2years and we broke up last November. He broke up with me because he thought there was no future and we kept fighting. It was a long distance relationship with very tough conditions. I suffered immensely through that phase of my life and my best friend supported me when he left. He just left like that, didn't bother much. I didn't get a message from him for 6months, After 6months , when I am feeling little better , he has decided to come back into my life saying he couldn't move on and he wants me back. 
My best friend tells me not to get back with him, I also know that it's bad for me but I can't stop talking because this is what my heart wanted from 6months. I can't lie to my friend about him and I know she wouldn't understand. Please help me. 

Is it bad to offer your boyfriend some money if he is in need and not telling anyone? I told him he can give the money back when he gets his salary, but still..does this shows that I'm desperate to look good in front of him and wants his attention?

My offer is genuine though. 🤔

Boyfriend

Feeling anxious as usual..
Idk if its about work, love or life in general..
But lately I’ve been thinking about the decisions i have made. Specially in the aspect of love. I was in a 7 yr relationship, LDR on the last year cause i moved to another country. Left the relationship bcos of reasons or probably i just made them bcos i met someone whom i felt new and happy with.. who is somehow independent which is what i wanted.. i still feel guilty about it. Im with this guy now. I know he’s different but i sometimes compare him to my ex.. i miss the kind of love i had before but i made that decision of leaving. and i know in my heart he deserves better.. 😞

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