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Sheza Sajid @escapevelocit...

How do you build an alter ego Like I need the detailed steps…
also how do you stop seeking validation and attention from everyone.

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Anonymous

I need to know as well. Not from everyone but from that one person whom I adore the most and who doesn’t give a damn about me!!

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Anonymous

How do we stop that cause I dont wanna give him that power no more ive had enough

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Anonymous

Honestly, speaking I don’t know, I am going through the same.
I guess the following things might help
1. Knowing the triggers of your emotions
2. Their actions
3. Seeing the person as they are, they are not ideal.
4. If possible communicate with them about the problems that you’re facing.
5. Start to detach from that person, it’s upsetting to detach from someone whom you adore but do it. Why?? That’s because you should value yourself and know that you deserve a better person.
6. If they want you, they will be there for you. Have patience and let their actions speak. The person who truly cares about you will give you the attention that you need. You don’t have to fight for their attention.

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Sheza Sajid @escapevelocit...

we work together! cant avoid him
He says he loves me isnt expressive 0 efforts to see me or talk to me.
And he doesnt want me to spend on him or be expressive either…
he wont ask me out…
and hes not over his toxic ex

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Anonymous

I think he needs time. I know that you want him too. Meanwhile, analyse if you truly want him if he’s showing minimal efforts when you need effort in your relationships. I can see that current things are not working well. Analyse everything before taking steps

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Anonymous

I dont know the texts are dry there are no efforts if I dont try and Its getting me frustrated maybe I should just go no contact

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Anonymous

Yes, I feel you…
Going through the same. Initially, he sounded very enthusiastic and over months, he has lost I guess. The texts became dry. I can see the difference and I can’t deny the facts💔

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