How can someone who claims that he loves you, wants you forever, meet a new girl and cheat on you and decide to marry her only within 2months . And all you get as answer is it's arranged by family. And say "can we still be in relationship after my marriage".. what do you think what kind of person he is?

I think you should focus on yourself what he did to you was wrong If he really loved you he would have focused on you He doesn't deserve you 

Relationships

My boyfriend is very confusing. He rejected me and and wants me as his friend. And he is very okay without me in his life. And he says he never loved me and again comes and says he loves me. This loop repeated around 4-5 times over 4 months. And thus time he completely ignored me from his thing. but I'm going back to him again and again since he is the only one i have in my current life. What is he even thinking about me ..does he want me or not ? But he said he is not ready for relationship and marriage after saying that he would marry me surely for 8 months now !

Breakup

Hi !!! 

Last night we break up !!!
He decided to part ways with me...
For his own selfish reason ...

He called it off because he don't wanna stay in guilt of not giving me proper time ..

But he was the one and wanted to start relationship ...

After all that happened we talked n all...
He said he was feeling sorry for leaving me 
And said me to move on 


But im not able to move onn...
Cause i really started liking him and want to continue it ...

But now im really shattered and it feel like hell. I don't know what to do !!!

It really break my heart and feel like loser ...


Anxiety

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5m ago

I met him 2 years ago. In 8 days from today, we will close 2 years. And yet he managed to do it. He managed to block me again. After so many moments. After so many memories.
I knew he never cared for me, but I hoped deep inside that he would change. I hoped to close my eyes at some point, and when I finally opened them, to find what I wanted more than anything for two years. To find love, care, satisfaction.But, people never change …They always remain the same and worse.
I met him two years ago when he was hurt. I was very impressed that he opened so quickly while I also felt so important. I felt I deserved to be with someone. I felt I was not rubbish.
We were fighting on a daily basis. I devoted my whole life to him. I had nothing else, I only had him. I knew that whatever we were, it was temporary. It had a specific duration. It would not be something that would last forever. But I wanted to live every time at that moment. I did not care about the consequences. I did not care about the truth and reality. Because I knew from the beginning that I had to stop. I just never wanted to.
I met him two years ago, and I thought he was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. He was so real, he never lied about what he felt. Within three weeks of talking I managed to fall in love with him deeply. From personality to hair ,he was exactly what I was dreaming for.The ideal man. But it was never him. This illusion withered me.I had dreams for him. I thought that together we could overcome any difficulty and that he could finally find the strength in him.
What I did not know was that he could never find strength while hurting the person that loves him more than anything, he could not just find strength because he was lost long ago.
And one can never love someone who never tried for someone. Who never appreciated (her) for what (she) was.
Because I was a nothing for him, always.

Exhausted

So I met this guy 3 months ago and we’ve talked every single day. He’s so f nice and very consistent person. I like him the way he is periodt, and that pushed me to test him which I really regret forever. I insisted to stop the talking many times (I didn’t like the idea trust me) I’m just tryna get him by this trap. Second time around i asked him he didn’t reply and just ignored me, I contacted him through instagram and asked if we should stop and he replied yes that he wanted to focus with himself for now and the responsibilities. Two days passed he contacted me again and apologized for what he did, he explained why it triggered him to do so and just pretended nothing happened. The day after I didn’t reply to his text message and just let the day passed to breath and to think if should stay . I decided to stay and talk to him again and to start with I texted saying “good morning “ tbh i was hurt by his replies. He acted so cold and he starts calling me “bro” tbh it’s weird lol. I’m quiet sensitive so I suggested to just stop for the better, he didn’t reply but he contacted me the day after saying he will be on a trip and he will text me when he gets back. 2 weeks passed he didn’t replied, I saw his posts on insta that he was on a trip with his family. I initiated to contact him and he responds so cold that i dont know him anymore. I stopped. It hurts knowing I know I made a mistake. I pushed him away from me. I told him what I feel and the only thing he said was he seeing himself getting attached so he reacted by distancing. I- seriously was just starring his message to digest whats goin on and I reacted by cutting ties with him and we exchanged gbyes cos that’s what I want. Now 2 and half week passed I contacted him again (toxic duh) just to let him know I missed him and he replied he misses me too. Idk just wanna share this thats all. Thank you for reading until here. I know this is boring but ugh i just wanted someone to talk to rn that’s all

Long Distance Relationship

I have been in a relationship twice earlier. Both of them broke my trust. It was really difficult for me to trust somebody again. During my lat relationship, when it almost ended, I came to know that one of the closest man in my life also did something similar (he is family member). This just broke my heart, I had no hope for love, commitment and trust into somebody, especially men! Since then I am suffering from depression and anxiety issues. It took me almost 2 years to realise and process what all is happening with me, I am now much aware about these conditions and can help myself at times.

But while I was into all this, I met a guy at a friend’s wedding. I had seen him earlier in the same common friend’s stories too. So I was trying to see whether he is the same guy or not. Then after the wedding he sent me a friend request, we chatted for almost whole night, 5-6 hours at a stretch. Exchanged numbers and talked for almost 2-3 hours. We instantly vibed! I dont know why but I had an amazing feeling and he felt the same. We met the day after, spent almost 5 hours together and felt amazing!! We chatted for almost 2-3 hours the same night. We met again on the other day, spent 3-4 hours again! The connection was instant and I was already in love with him. But he wasn’t sure about it because it was just 3-4 days and he felt like I am getting serious for him and he isn’t. He told me someone left him after being together for 6 years, it was long distance and did not work. So he was afraid as might have to move out cause of his career choices. That was the reason within a week he said I don’t think I am ready for any sort of relationship right now. Thats it! It was a long text and everything was over. Did not even felt the need of meeting and talking things out. I felt devastated and it was so disheartening because the way we had a time together was totally different then what we were going through that time. I felt bad about the fact didn’t he feel the need of meeting and talking things out and giving a closure so that we both can move on in our lives, it might have been easier than what I am feeling right now! 

Now I am very much afraid to even like someone. He being so mature and understanding person, can do this then how do I trust people now. Whatever I felt with him, was something I use to fantasise about, I never thought I would meet somebody who would be that much compatible to me. But then destiny wanted something else, altogether. Everything was finished on a message note! 

Memories

8 years old relationship ended..i don't want to even see his face anymore.. because he abused me very badly and disrespectfully. but i feel like now I can never be in a relationship. I'm 27 have only been in relationship once with this guy.
It's been more than a year since we broke up 
Its like I'm damaged with the past and see no future

I've been together with my boyfriend for a long time now, he's autistic and even though I love and adore him...I don't know if I can deal with his shutdowns any longer. 
Whenever he's exposed to too much stress, or feels overwhelmed he just shutdown and doesn't talk to anyone. 
The last time we talked was a month ago. It can happen from one moment to another. 

Now, as a child I was abandoned and didn't get much loving so it's especially difficult for me to have to deal with not knowing when he'll come back. 
As much as I understand that there is a lot going on for him(too much work, lost family members etc) I don't know if I can do it much longer...

The thought of ending things fills me with sadness, but being in a relationship where you feel like you can't relay on your partner doesn't sound right. Isn't what I need. 
I don't know what to do or how to even get him to talk to me. 

I can't understand this person(he is my online friend). If anyone can help me here? 
Today when I said bye I am disturbed I want break, he was like you matter to me, I count on you and was apolozing if anything happened. Like he don't understand? when someone is disturbed(he knows by my mental health is disturbed) don't bother them. 
One day he is good, talking to me coz he likes to talk, he is nice person but don't care about how I feel sometimes as he is annoying too, sometimes ignored me too. He is enthusiast person he said something on call few days back maybe he don't remember, but it creeped me and hurted. 
Is it because of loneliness guys? Or what?


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