Honestly I don’t know where to start. But what I want to be is okay you know…
With so much going on having a bub, relationship issues & personal issues wanting the best for my babies is really getting tough. And I mean mentally I want to be strong but I just breakdown so much I get so fucking frustrated with myself… And talking to family does not help because we are all kinds of fucked up and friends well I can count them on one hand and then I feel like I can’t talk to them because I don’t know what’s going on with me I’m all over the place…
I know it gets frustrating, looking after babies and it gets kind of irritating as your individual life get’s over. You just put in all your efforts to take care of the child and in the process we kind of lose ourselves.
Try socializing more or explore online what you can do for yourself to divert your mind and at the same time, you feel good about doing something yourself.
Make a schedule and work according to that (babies too need schedule) and you would probably see a difference in everything. Spend quality time with your husband, plan trips may be somewhere close to your house. Everyone needs change and these little things will do better mentally and physically. 💙
Thankyou, honestly my babies are what put me on a straight and narrow path but other surrounding things tend to wear me down.
I understand. That’s why I suggested doing other things so that less mind is focused on things that make you stressed and happier towards what you actually enjoy.
PS: I am not a mother, but I understand the gravity a woman undergoes after marriage and kids.
I hope you get every bit of happiness💛