Hi, I’m 38 years old and have a daughter of 5. She told me her father molests her, but only me. Her father applied and got custody, nobody wanted to listen. I see her every two weeks and he doesn’t let me call, she is a dead shell after four months of hell 

Oh my gosh your daughter needs to tell her school or something 

Talk to someone you trust and also take it to authorities that deals with child safety. Seek help and you will get it. Do it for the child. Don’t think about anything else. 

Child Abuse

I absolutely cannot stand people who cuss . This is solely because of my father. It is quite normal for him to use cuss words in his language in front of me. I understand when u use it when u are extremely angry or frustrated but he uses them as a normal part of his vocabulary as if it is normal that too on the top of his lungs( he speaks extremely loudly). I have seen his friends only being So careful Abt not using cuss words around their children no matter how angry or how much they hate someone so why can't my father. He can control his language when he is around other family members like my grandparents. He can cuss Abt anything and anyone and doesn't seem or want to understand the other person's perspective (it's mostly outsiders)  It seems like my mother doesn't like it too but she doesn't say a word to him . I mean she should be the one saying something to him when I as a child can't. I can't tell him to watch his language we don't have that kind of relationship + he is a typical Indian man. I get soooooo mad and frustrated. Pls help we how can I not get mad or affected or do something on personal level.

Family

Hey, soo just a few months back I found out my dad is having an affair actually two, and one of them is my mom's best friend. Idk what to do I am just 16 and sometimes I feel angry and sometimes I end up crying a lot. I kind of knew about this a few yrs back but I wasn't sure but last month I saw it with proof n I am sure.. I feel really upset and betrayed and it is affecting my mental health a lot. Pls, help me out.

Mental Health

My dad says horrible things to me all of the time but sometimes we have good times and I feel guilty and that I shouldn’t feel the way I do towards him

sometimes you just want someone to help you, listen to you, love you. not always a girl. your family, you do everything even sometimes you make up things so that it will make your father proud and others will not look down upon him, just to make him happy and you realize that just seeing your father happy makes you happy. but you also want someone to listen to you in your dark times and in spite of that he is way more welcoming than many others but still you were not raised that way so still if you want him to listen, you won't be able to speak.

Life

I dont know how to share this matter with you guys..and idk if its right to think that my dad is not a good person,i dont feel good around him,not like in a way that he would sexually harass me or something,but its just the negative energy i get from him whenever hes around..its like he will burst out on anybody anytime,he has anger issues,ego and he wants to control every family member in the house...he has literally physically hit my mom so many times..even infront of me and my brother..he has even hit and slapped me 5 times and my younger brother too.. the urge to find some platform where i can share my inner thoughts and what im feeling came just today morning and here i am now trying to put all my thoughts into words somehow...yesterday night my mom was sick so i cleaned the whole kitchen it took a lot of time as i did it from the scratch bcoz my mom doesnt keep the kitchen clean at all,but she was sick and so i took the initiative and did it for like 4 or 5 hours continuously and  i was obviously very tired at the end after i got over wid cleaning everything,my dad ,he was in the hall watching tv,and the kitchen was just next to it,he knew i was working in the kitchen ,after the cleaning i went upstairs to sleep,it was now night time and i was still sleeping coz in afternoon i did the cleaning so maybe that was the reason i slept this much,now my brother came  up from downstairs to wake me up to serve dad the dinner that my brother himself could have done it since he came up from downstairs right now,he is literally in 10th right now and he does serve me and my mom too sometimes, so he could have done it right now too for dad ,i said plz go and serve it for dad this once,but then my dad screamed from downstairs and that i should come down and serve it to him myself becoz im the girl...i cant tell anyone how humiliating his words were for me,..my brother did say to our dad that he can serve him as i was sleeping and was tired.. but still..my dad didnt listen and kept on yelling for me to come down,i was so scared at that pt,i even cried so much..,..i cannot let someone treat me like a slave and hit me whenever they think they can...i feel suffocated..he doesnt even let me go out with friends...my mom knows this all that happens but still shes willing to stay wid him...why cant she once think abt us?...cant she see that we are suffering mentally as well as physically under such a father...is she so hopeless?so in love?or so week to leave him....whenever i confront her she says hes suffering loss in business and so many other reasons but i still dont get the fact why should he be like this to us even if he might be facing some issues outside he cant behave like this to us....this is the reason why i cant even share anything with my mom she doesnt understand me..im sick and depressed ,i dont know how am i going to survive like this..i really dont know..

Depression

i am 18 year old, generally my parents have frequent fights, but during this lockdown they had a major fight, my dad said something to my mom and to my grandmother which he shouldn't have said, i lost my control and shouted on my dad for his behaviour, i never thought that my father would feel so bad about it, he really loves me and was really hurt by my words and from that day onward he is not talking to me. i dont know what i did wrong but this is killing me. he was also teaching for my upcoming entrances and now has stopped it, i dont know whether i was wrong or not but i have tried talking to him and he gives me uninterested replies. i am so mentally disturbed i am not even able to study and i dont know what to do

Relationships

Heyy
So i'm a professional tennis player and have been playing since i was 5 and now i'm 19, 'm a 2 time gold medalist is the nationals and a bronze medalist in the SGFI Asian games. My dad has been my coach since i was 7, and i am so grateful cause if it wasn't for him i would have never reached so many milestones. But the thing is he never ever says anything good he is always criticizing never once said he's proud of me,never says i do a good job and if a ask he says he's just making me stronger. We don't have a daughter father relationship, we have a coach student relationship and it hurts so much. I have also sacrificed so much never went out it was always tennis tennis tennis i love the sport don't get me wrong it's just i would like to have a dad rather than having a coach all the time. I can't have a proper convo with him without it turning into a fight and without it being something tennis related. I get so jealous when i see my friends hanging out with their dads . 
Sometimes all i need is my dad not a coach. 

How to Deal with a father Who always Replys you Rudely anything you talk to Him Ask Or Just Say What You feel. I Get frustrated Seeing His Behaviour I dont Like it 😑

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