Hi, I have been in a dilemma for a few days now. So I’ve been talking to this person online for a little over a year now. Everything is great, we facetime, call, etc so I know it’s not a catfish. But for the past few days, I’ve been reflecting on all the things he says. Once he can be very sweet and tells me he likes me, that I could be a great wife to him or even mother. We used to call daily and talk for hours and we have also been intimate (over the phone then). On the other hand, he will say things like, I miss this girl, she was so hot. Or he will tell me he went on dates with someone and it was awesome. What the f*** is his deal ??? We aren’t in a relationship so I feel like I’m not allowed to get mad about it and I have never told him it bothers me. I haven’t really been replying to him so if anyone can give me advice. (Sorry if the text is a little chaotic). And the dilemma is if I’m allowed to get mad about it or if I’m just stupid and I should move on cause he clearly doesn’t give a sh*t about me.
I know right, a year is a long time to devote to a person like that. I’m thinking of what I want to tell him cause tbh I am disgusted when I hear his voice but the feelings are still there. And I get it about you too, we’re in this together !!
