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Hey yโ€™all. I have something to say. I think Iโ€™m bisexual. I find myself checking girls out and get sexually stimulated by them sometimes. But I know for a fact that Iโ€™m heteroromantic. Like I can definitely see myself being intimate with another girl and stuff but not holding a real relationship with them- and that makes me feel like a bad person, as if I just want to use these girls for pleasure. Iโ€™m totally attracted to guys in every way though. I definitely prefer guys. I could never say any of this to anyone because I come from a family that has deep-set Christian values and beliefs, and I hold the same. I know that the bible says being gay is a sin, but I know that sexuality is not a choice. And the vast majority of my friends are the conservative, which i am too, but Iโ€™ve always been very tolerant of homosexuality- the most tolerant in my family, which my family dissaproves of. I have multiple gay friends whom I love to death. But Iโ€™m so confused. I donโ€™t know if this is some phase or Iโ€™m just really horny??? Please let me know your thoughts about this.

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Avi @avi

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Hey! Itโ€™s really good that you are saying out these thoughts of yours. Being bi is not a sin (not at least for me, though I also belong to a Hindu family which disapproves of the same because I am an LGBTQ+ ally and supporter), it is just how you feel for other people.
Maybe it is a phase or maybe it is notโ€ฆ But does that really matters until and unless it is you?
Maybe you just feel a little, and things are building up in your mind?
Maybe you recently saw a movie or a documentary or read something about bisexuality and started feeling like one of a character.
There could be tons of possibilities, but everything is fine till it is youโ€ฆ

Stay smiling, Stay YOU!! :)

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Simran @st1199

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Hi!
You clearly know how you feel towards other genders. You know itโ€™s not a choice but we just get that, right? There is nothing wrong and never be ashamed of it.

I believe there is nothing wrong in it. The way you feel is not in your hand however if you are doing something purposely then itโ€™s wrong. Never take advantage of your sexuality or a situation but do it right in the right way.

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maybe youโ€™re just confusing yourself and want to convince yourself that you are bisexual just because you find some girls attractive or whatever ! i mean thatโ€™s a normal thing doesnโ€™t make you bi ! just sit with yourself and think about your desire and what do ou want ! these days everyone is thinking themselves a homo just by liking the same gender and since the homosexuality became a normal thing now thatโ€™s to first conclusion to jump on (i find someone with the same gender attractive ===>im homosexual )

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Well the thing is iโ€™m not just attracted to them, Iโ€™m sexually attracted to them. So Iโ€™m kinda just in this weird limbo of suppressing it and denying it because Iโ€™m not sure if i will really ever like a girl.

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hi darling,
I know that this is very blunt, but maybe if you could try kissing or something in relation to that with them? Maybe that would make your feelings even more concrete. I know that this is extremely tough, but trust me its worth a shot.

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at this point, fuck friends who are against you, its like being homophobic shouldnโ€™t even be a choice? I donโ€™t know how old you are, but making internet friends was genuinely the best decision I have ever made. I was always shy but just because of them I had a character development. I was me.

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Anonymous
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Lol okay where do you find these internet friends tho

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Just enter a fandom, be it video or tv show and youโ€™ll meet some people ๐Ÿค™

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sorry video game* lol

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Hey! You donโ€™t have to be sexually and romantically attracted to the same gender. And also you donโ€™t have to put yourself a label. It doesnโ€™t change how you feel anyways just makes you more confused. Thatโ€™s my opinion of course:) but just know that you have nothing to be ashamed of :) Enjoy how you feel both sexually and romantically :) Have a happy day!!

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