Hey yβall. I have something to say. I think Iβm bisexual. I find myself checking girls out and get sexually stimulated by them sometimes. But I know for a fact that Iβm heteroromantic. Like I can definitely see myself being intimate with another girl and stuff but not holding a real relationship with them- and that makes me feel like a bad person, as if I just want to use these girls for pleasure. Iβm totally attracted to guys in every way though. I definitely prefer guys. I could never say any of this to anyone because I come from a family that has deep-set Christian values and beliefs, and I hold the same. I know that the bible says being gay is a sin, but I know that sexuality is not a choice. And the vast majority of my friends are the conservative, which i am too, but Iβve always been very tolerant of homosexuality- the most tolerant in my family, which my family dissaproves of. I have multiple gay friends whom I love to death. But Iβm so confused. I donβt know if this is some phase or Iβm just really horny??? Please let me know your thoughts about this.
Avi @avi
Hey! Itβs really good that you are saying out these thoughts of yours. Being bi is not a sin (not at least for me, though I also belong to a Hindu family which disapproves of the same because I am an LGBTQ+ ally and supporter), it is just how you feel for other people.
Maybe it is a phase or maybe it is not⦠But does that really matters until and unless it is you?
Maybe you just feel a little, and things are building up in your mind?
Maybe you recently saw a movie or a documentary or read something about bisexuality and started feeling like one of a character.
There could be tons of possibilities, but everything is fine till it is youβ¦
Stay smiling, Stay YOU!! :)
Simran @st1199
Hi!
You clearly know how you feel towards other genders. You know itβs not a choice but we just get that, right? There is nothing wrong and never be ashamed of it.
I believe there is nothing wrong in it. The way you feel is not in your hand however if you are doing something purposely then itβs wrong. Never take advantage of your sexuality or a situation but do it right in the right way.
maybe youβre just confusing yourself and want to convince yourself that you are bisexual just because you find some girls attractive or whatever ! i mean thatβs a normal thing doesnβt make you bi ! just sit with yourself and think about your desire and what do ou want ! these days everyone is thinking themselves a homo just by liking the same gender and since the homosexuality became a normal thing now thatβs to first conclusion to jump on (i find someone with the same gender attractive ===>im homosexual )
Well the thing is iβm not just attracted to them, Iβm sexually attracted to them. So Iβm kinda just in this weird limbo of suppressing it and denying it because Iβm not sure if i will really ever like a girl.
hi darling,
I know that this is very blunt, but maybe if you could try kissing or something in relation to that with them? Maybe that would make your feelings even more concrete. I know that this is extremely tough, but trust me its worth a shot.
at this point, fuck friends who are against you, its like being homophobic shouldnβt even be a choice? I donβt know how old you are, but making internet friends was genuinely the best decision I have ever made. I was always shy but just because of them I had a character development. I was me.
Lol okay where do you find these internet friends tho
Just enter a fandom, be it video or tv show and youβll meet some people π€
sorry video game* lol
Hey! You donβt have to be sexually and romantically attracted to the same gender. And also you donβt have to put yourself a label. It doesnβt change how you feel anyways just makes you more confused. Thatβs my opinion of course:) but just know that you have nothing to be ashamed of :) Enjoy how you feel both sexually and romantically :) Have a happy day!!