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Hey, IDK really know how I have been feeling. I just came here to rant about some stuff which Iโ€™ve been facing. Iโ€™m a 12th class student like Iโ€™ve just entered 12th grade and thereโ€™s already alot of pressure to score 90%+ as I chose my fav stream and went against my father as he wanted me to take up science and I didnโ€™t. I wanted to take up humanities and thatโ€™s what I did but then Iโ€™ve alot of pressure I need to prove him that I did the right choice for myself and for my career. I wish to go abroad for my further studies but now as Iโ€™ve chose the stream according to me my father is just willing to help me for like Indian universities which Iโ€™m not that much stressed about but like Iโ€™m more stressed about how Iโ€™m gonna get it? How should I apply for scholarship then? Everything is just a mess and then online school comes giving alot of assignments, projects and shitty things. Plus I donโ€™t even feel like waking up in the morning even if I sleep around 10pm. When I wake up my body just pains and hurts and I feel tired and sleepy. Also, Iโ€™m someone who almost stays anxious 24/7 I just donโ€™t know how to deal with anything but I also donโ€™t wanna give upโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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youโ€™re depressed and itโ€™s ok. i want you to live for yourself, not for your parents or society. You have nothing to prove to your father. He will be happy if you even live a basic happy life. trust me, iโ€™m speaking from experience. If u keep trying to prove that you were right or they were wrong or something else then you wonโ€™t be happy. you wonโ€™t be living for yourself. You will get what u want no matter what and your papa obviously wanted you to choose a science stream. its just their psychology. we canโ€™t blame them for that. and iโ€™m glad that u dont wanna give up. good luck buddy.

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Anonymous
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Thank you so much buddy!!

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Anonymous
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u donโ€™t have to thank me. I just did my job as a decent human being.

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Dear,

Parents are always well wishes for us. But sometimes their lack of exposure or whatsoever puts us in this kind of situation. But as a child you should understand their intention behind their action. Take things easy. After 10 years or so both u and your father will forget this day and feelings u r going through. Remember that. You seem very ambitious. I am very proud of you. But remember he is your father. You donโ€™t have to prove to him. He will accept u even if you fail. If u r in tears he will melt. Just concentrate on what u want rather than proving him right or wrong. I hope you have heard of the law of universe. When u strongly desire for something the entire universe will support u. Do it for yourself and accept the results as yours. When u know u have done everything from your carpenter be and it is time to involve your father, he will be in a state to accept or you will be in a state to convince him easily. Even if he doesnโ€™t agree, follow your heart at that time. Now just do what has to be done to reach their. All the best for your future.

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