Hey everyone, I’m new here.
I have a girlfriend that I think isn’t physically attracted to me. We agreed that I will workout and improve my physic as she likes shredded guys. I have been doing it but some days I feel like I’m good enough that I do not need to try hard. Anyways, I am one of those guys that like saying things as I feel to my significant other. I told her I was worried she may cheat on me in the future when and if we get married. Oh, did I mentioned that I proposed to her about a month ago and she said yes. I just don’t feel secure with her but I really love her. What can I do? Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance.
Of she wants a guy with shredded body, is her figure that good??
KT @ft
I love her and it would be hard to be objective. But I think she’s gorgeous for sure.
Okay
I understand if she doesn’t want to be with a fat guy, but if she only wants to be with a shredded guy, she is asking for too much, and might leave you in future
How old are you guys??
14-15
Chill bro, she won’t leave you, you guys are so young, just lose some weight
Wts ur age mr/miss advisor?
And now I see you are not the post author,so I won’t be replying to you anymore
KT @ft
Oh thanks for replying guys.
I’m 31 she’s 21. I have 2 jobs and busy.
I’m skinny not fat.
Oh, okay, she is immature, it’s okay, don’t worry
KT @ft
I think you might be right but she’ll disagree.
21 yaar, come on,were you mature at that age, at that time even you would have thought you would marry someone like Katrina kaif
KT @ft
😂 thanks for giving me something to laugh at. But what would you do if you were me?
I m fat, and I dont care If someone tells me they would like to see me lose some weight, because if I m comfortable with it, it’s none of their business
And I point it to them that you can’t do any better than this, and if you don’t like me like this, you are free to leave
KT @ft
Hmm thanks for this. This actually makes me think and look at it differently.
Yup, all the best 😊😊
KT @ft
I usually don’t look at people’s age to be honest. I think age is just a number. Some people are way matured beyond their numbers
I agree, but I think your girl isn’t mature, sorry if it hurts your feelings
KT @ft
No, it’s okay. You may well be right. I’m just frustrated sometimes. I guess I’m gonna have to put on my big boy pants and deal do what I feel comfortable doing. If she doesn’t like that, then whatever.
Yes, give her some time, she is so young, obviously a bit immature 😊
KT @ft
Thank you