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Anonymous

Hey everyone, I’m new here.

I have a girlfriend that I think isn’t physically attracted to me. We agreed that I will workout and improve my physic as she likes shredded guys. I have been doing it but some days I feel like I’m good enough that I do not need to try hard. Anyways, I am one of those guys that like saying things as I feel to my significant other. I told her I was worried she may cheat on me in the future when and if we get married. Oh, did I mentioned that I proposed to her about a month ago and she said yes. I just don’t feel secure with her but I really love her. What can I do? Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance.

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Anonymous

Of she wants a guy with shredded body, is her figure that good??

KT @ft

I love her and it would be hard to be objective. But I think she’s gorgeous for sure.

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Anonymous

Okay
I understand if she doesn’t want to be with a fat guy, but if she only wants to be with a shredded guy, she is asking for too much, and might leave you in future
How old are you guys??

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Anonymous

14-15

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Anonymous

Chill bro, she won’t leave you, you guys are so young, just lose some weight

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Anonymous

Wts ur age mr/miss advisor?

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Anonymous

And now I see you are not the post author,so I won’t be replying to you anymore

KT @ft

Oh thanks for replying guys.

I’m 31 she’s 21. I have 2 jobs and busy.

I’m skinny not fat.

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Anonymous

Oh, okay, she is immature, it’s okay, don’t worry

KT @ft

I think you might be right but she’ll disagree.

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Anonymous

21 yaar, come on,were you mature at that age, at that time even you would have thought you would marry someone like Katrina kaif

KT @ft

😂 thanks for giving me something to laugh at. But what would you do if you were me?

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Anonymous

I m fat, and I dont care If someone tells me they would like to see me lose some weight, because if I m comfortable with it, it’s none of their business
And I point it to them that you can’t do any better than this, and if you don’t like me like this, you are free to leave

KT @ft

Hmm thanks for this. This actually makes me think and look at it differently.

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Anonymous

Yup, all the best 😊😊

KT @ft

I usually don’t look at people’s age to be honest. I think age is just a number. Some people are way matured beyond their numbers

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Anonymous

I agree, but I think your girl isn’t mature, sorry if it hurts your feelings

KT @ft

No, it’s okay. You may well be right. I’m just frustrated sometimes. I guess I’m gonna have to put on my big boy pants and deal do what I feel comfortable doing. If she doesn’t like that, then whatever.

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Anonymous

Yes, give her some time, she is so young, obviously a bit immature 😊

KT @ft

Thank you

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