Hello to whoever is reading this post
I am posting this to get suggestions for the problem, I realized this morning. During middle school I used to be one of the best performers in my class. I was serious about how I want to study and manage other things. I decided to change myself and be calmer in the situation in which I used to panic earlier because before that everyone said to me that you are too serious. I became much calmer than before but gradually I start taking things too lightly(even the ones that are important). I had to face consequences before and I remember that I used to tell myself that I will change but the same thing happened again. This has become a part of habits which I really want to change this time. I donβt want to go through those consequences again, please suggest me something.
Tbh try reading heavy meaningful books and make a mindset that u have to change and decide a goal u wanna achieve and try to be better than your role modelβ¦ u can start posting encouraging quotes which helps u to motivate. I was the exact opposite of u in middle school now I know how important seriousness is and Iβm learning something new everyday, tho, I have gained cold nature towards everyone but it makes me feel wiser and better than ever .
Do more knowledge makes one sound cold bcz I have felt that too.
Also, I like to read, if you have suggestions, would love to know
Harshika @halcyonharshika
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Wonder(disorder)
Red, white and royal blue (lgbtq)
the girl on the train(thriller)
Ikigai(peace and harmony)