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Anonymous

Hello,
Last night I go to know that there are a lot of rumours about me. I’m okay with rumours as long as they aren’t based upon my character and morals.
The rumour was that I cheated on my boyfriend (we broke up a month ago)
In reality, I met this guy who was a really nice person and I formed a great friendship with him. One day I went to have ice cream with that guy and a group of other friends. It was completely platonic.
I had asked my boyfriend then, Are you okay with this?
And he said he was. A week later he said that he wasn’t okay, so without a single thought, I stopped speaking to that guy.
After we’ve broken up why is he spreading these rumours?
I never had real feelings, it was just an attraction that died down very soon.
Did I do something wrong?

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Anonymous

nooooooo, its not ur fault nor u did anything wrng.

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Anonymous

Thank you 💗
I did not engage with that guy emotionally or sexually. So how can it be called cheating?
Am I overthinking it? Is my ex a terrible person? Am I a terrible person?
I have so many questions.

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Anonymous

Obviously when we hear rumours abt it, we tend to overthink. Its normal, you are an amazing confident n pure soul🖤❤️.

@positivitygirl

no!
look, rumors are rumors like you said and your ex probably did that to hurt you because he felt like that was the truth.

I know your morals are important to you so be calm if you know you didn’t cheat well you have nothing to worry about. people that know you will stand by your side and the rest will show their truth colors

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Anonymous

Thank you 💗

@positivitygirl

don’t worry! im sure you are going to be alright!!

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Anonymous

No! You didn’t… relationships form and break…take time to find your real love… it’s totally okay to break-up…and about the rumours you don’t have to go and tell everyone that he’s lying to everyone…let them gossip behind you…behind you 😏 just share these things with your closest friends and they’ll believe you 💛 sending love and good vibes 💖

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@dontlosehope06

Go to him n public n say it all out loud so that he knows he should mind what he is speaking no one can go on saying shit if they feel like it take your friends along you did nothing wrong . But if this harms your mental health buss it . Or do it on call w conf call w the ppl who are involved in spreading the rumour n record it.

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pie 🥧 @sweetpie21

Nothing’s wrong with you people are like this judgemental and some ex’s do this so all you can do is just ignore… It doesn’t matter whatever you do they will always judge so just give zero fucks ❤ and chill live your life and raise your standards

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@paperbox

You did no wrong. If your partner(irrespective of their gender) is not okay with you having your own space and circle of friends of any kind, it is a red flag. It is good that you left him before it transcended to something grim. Don’t worry about the rumours, even if he is spreading them, it doesn’t matter. People talk and forget. Love<3

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Anonymous

He is just looking at that as a way to blame you.

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