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Anonymous

Hello Everyone!

I am new at this platform, not really sure how things work here. But I have few things going on in my life. I know everyone is going through alot of stuff. Well about me I just have one question if you guys can answer honestly - Is it okay to fall for a guy who loves someone else and is dating the “someone else”? and adding to this questions - Is it okay knowing all this still be in touch with this guy?

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Anonymous

Hey! Welcome to now and me!
We’re here for you. It’s fine to be in touch with the person as long as you don’t interfere with his relationship! It’s okay to be friends

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Anonymous

Hi! Thank you so much for your reply. It means alot.

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Simran @st1199

Hi!
Glad to have you here. ✨

1. Yes, it’s fine to the stage you don’t get affected or get stressed because of all this. If you keep it healthy then it’s okay.
2. Yes, it totally depends on how you want to take ahead. If you don’t feel comfortable don’t be in touch.

Mature ways can be different for different people. You take a call that gives you peace. 💛

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Anonymous

Thank you for the reply. Means alot! But the thing is I have feelings for him. Basically I think I just need his attention and care towards me. I want to talk to him everyday. But he does not care. he talks to me whenever he wants to and that hurts. He is not the guy I fell for. I want to get over him but it is just difficult. I am trying my best!

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Simran @st1199

You don’t have to ‘move on’ or ‘get over’. You just have to accept and let the process take its time. That’s when you will automatically be passed this situation. Of course, it will take time but it will be done, and only if you too try to be past it and not into the guy.

Also, it’s completely okay and not necessary that everyone will do things according to our will. It’s a part of life, don’t worry and chill. 🌻✨

Gowtham @gowtham235

It’s normal liking a person who likes some other , but it’s not too much right because it hurts u some day, just be balanced in it.

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