Ever thought of a feeling that you are bieng so t#xic from your side for your boyfriend or girlfriend that you regret doing. Like you are bieng t#xic you know that and thats bothering you and its bieng affecting you also from inside.
That’s what we called as self realisation and also should work to make ourselves better for the betterment of the relationship !
Even tho i realise it …i tend to fight with him on another topic even tho i dont wanna.
it just happens no matter how much i try not to, what do i do to fix it??? I feel t#xic for myself!!!
In your case, its you who feels toxic and in my case its me, I’m that one.
So what i hv started is trying to make myself feel calm and not to be so burdened over my partner and give them their chance of expressing themselves and make myself understand their situation and realise that “am I overreacting over his/her situation?” “It’s actually not that serious to have a fight rn” we should let it be.
Im trying to be more better and my partner is actually appreciating that !!
Eventually we also sort it out and everything becomes okay , but then because of me and my nature i fight in small small things which is not even that important. I tell him that please its me who is like this and i am sorry for it then he says…no it him its his fault who is hurting you like now and then …and after that i feel more guilty!!! what the f is wrong with me nowadays man!!
Ya I completely get it, it happens when we fight. All you have to do is to make your partner calm down and shower your love as much as u can, everyone is searching love everywhere but not getting it even after giving it fully. Try to make your bond stronger and be a supportive one alys. Don’t overthink, just try to be relaxed and give and take comfort from each other, that’s where u get to become more expressive rather than aggressive.
You will do it, don’t worry. 😀
vriksh @fulltree9
Yes I agree and I realised that I’m being the toxic guy for my gf and that grief is enough to make oneself feel unworthy
Well tbh everyone is toxic, it just that there are different level of it which we can handle.
