Ek ldka h jisa ma like krti hu or wo bhi mujhe like krta h lakin auski gf h pahala sa hi lakin wo mko like krta h . Yrr ma auska sth relation ma bhi niii aa skti kyuki wo relation ma h pahala sa hi . Ma kya kru yrr phirr . Auspa trust kru ?? Auska sth relation ma au ??

Dekho relationship hone ke bad agr yeh ho skta hai then chances same hai ki woh insaan kisi aur ke sath bhi interested ho skta hai kafi bda red flag hai yeh 

Itne bde red flag par trust krne se better hai ki aaram se apne upar trust kr lo tode time ke bad tum apne ap psand nhi krogi so emotional ko toda control rakho

Pleasure is mine and emotional hokr ese decision mat lena 

Madam simple answer hai na ab yeh toh problematic hai yeh person kal ko isko koi aur psand aa jayega toh

Nahi mitr unke sath relation mai nahi aaiye 

Adulting

a girl knows that I love her so she chose to be a prostitute because she knew that anyhow she will convince me to marry her and we know that in love we bypass the lover's flaws. So, she is living now a lustful life in her young age but she is not talking to me for years because she wants me to become a successful person so that she can marry me. Her entire family, relatives, everyone close to her knows that I love her and she and her friend, society told my parents that I love her. What should I do? Should I leave her for her stupid idea? Is it my fault that if I leave her for her stupid idea after promising to marry her in the church? Even though a male prostitute knows her, she is dating someone else in front of me...I don't have any problem but if someone else (except her) opposes the rules and regulations against me, I take action.
I consulted a psychologists and they told me to walk away from her and move ahead in life. 

Love

Tell me, what are ur addictions?

Coming Out

Hey guys !! Plz help ....I have been preparing for neet since  some months now . I don't  feel like i have done nothing but yes i haven't  done much too . I haven't  revised , not solved questions and also haven't  done some chapters according to my test series , and some chapters done partially . I can't  recall the things i have done too . A lot is left to do but there only few days gap between each test and i fail to even complete the syllabus everytime , scoring really bad , haven't practised any questions . I need advice on how to schedule everything . Should i revise previous chapters along the way? What to do about the chapters i couldn't  do , should i complete them after others ? How to solve questions without being anxious? I get anxious while solving mainly physics or physical chemistry ??

Hustle

when I was 5 or 6 years old I was sexually assaulted by my cousin brother it left me with a lot of trauma I did confess to my parents after 15 years but they dint believe me and said boys are like that maybe they dint do it wantedly and my father believed him over me it fuckes me up every time my parents talk to him or help him and he still behaves like a fucking pervert around me I avoid situations where I can meet them but it so traumatizing it ruined my life forever about the choices I make with men or my love life, low self-esteem, extreme anxiety it ruined my childhood for me i was not safe at my own house i felt like sharing this today because my dad was helping him to get a match to get married i questioned him after everything you are helping him he gaslighted me saying I'm the bad person and I lie because why would someone remember things when they are 6 years old??? and I have to stay out of it because he has good nature to help others and I don't. sometimes I feel like the only person we go to comfort is our parents but when they fuckup I guess it's just you alone with yourself.

Child Abuse

Hello, it’s Meredith ￼

Happy

I feel ridiculous because I’m having such a hard time, but my soul-dog was diagnosed with cancer. He’s since started chemo and I’m trying to be positive that it will help but I feel like I’m drowning with worry. I used to feel such joy looking at his face, but now it just causes anxiety. I love him more than the world, and I know I can’t do anything beyond what I already am. I just feel like I’m at my wits end. How can I cope with his diagnosis in a better way? 

Cancer

Is it normal to be completely obsessed with Hayley Orrantia?

3am Thoughts

My brother and I never had a very healthy brother-sister relationship and I blame myself for that, 7-8 years back I committed a mistake ( didn’t hurt anybody) but it was a mistake because of which may be my brother was really embarrassed for having me as his sister. 
In 2016, he also committed a mistake and I did everything to protect him. 
Since then I never spoke to him about that incident but he never leaves a chance to embarrass me by repeating what I did in front of everybody. I never do that because I know how hurtful that is and it literally pulls a person back when they’re constantly being reminded of something they did out of stupidity (also I was very young and senseless) since then I’ve been very careful of my actions. Last year I came home, after almost 5 years whole family was together. Even if I speak to him politely or in a normal tone sometimes he just replies in an unexpected  way, rude tone. I avoid most of the times because I don’t want to fight or argue.  An hour back, I asked him to do something and he replied in a very rude tone and started shouting, I also lost my cool and again he spoke about that incident. Him and my mother only knows about that my father doesn’t, so on purpose he speaks in front of him. 
I don’t want to fight or argue. A lot of things are going in my life which I don’t share with anybody. My 4 year relationship is coming to an end, my career is going nowhere. I try to be positive but today again I was pulled back. I want my brother to be happy and at the same time I want him to change his moody behaviour because in the long run it’ll do no good to him.
He doesn’t respect me and that’s ok he doesn’t consider me as an elder sister because acc. to him, I’ve never done anything which an elder sister does but I’m trying and I try everyday. 

Sorry for such a long post. It’s just I don’t share my problems with anyone, whenever I write down my problems I feel normal. 

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