Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

no i tried i cried for a week and there was some issue with the guy mean something happened and they only turned back
but am not sure how long before another match pops in

C u can never know wether the guy is perfect for u or will the life go smooth n all… U have to live it out… Sorry if im hurting u more but thatsthe truth dear… Since u r working u always will have that respect… And the thing of choosing boys are u urself looking i mean in the matrimonial n all or left it to ur parents completely??

yeah its ok its true though u never know
am not looking am not in that state of mind you know am just 23 am trying to build a career , so i was not looking anywhere now its completely my parents who are looking for matches

Hmm either u take that responsibility from them n try rejecting most of the matches saying some excuses… Else u will have to o for higher studies… I understand the finance thing n all… Did talking o ur parents do any help?? I mean u must’ve already tried that i know… But still do u think there is a chance?

i dont think so i spoke to my dad he said am not going to look everthing and i keep u in safe hands but is that a good match u have to marry … his retirement is coming up and we are not financial well enough so i am a burden … i did bcom( made some bad choices ) going abroad for studies am afraid is not an option either … sorry if am bugging u but its how the situation is

Well dont go abroad n all… Mm regarding ur higher studies i dont have nuch knowledge… Mba n all… Hmm well if its that ur parents are not listening and u r someone who can’t go against them then u shud talk to the boy who come to c u… Tell him about ur dreams… Well if he can understand he will not force u… Else there are people who will support u too… And if u really didn’t like the guy say it to parents… I hope that they won’t force u into a marriage if u say u dont like the guy…

yeah, cant do that its not in my hands i mean i want to go out and live alone but my parents never sent me to live alone not even in hostel that protective they are and now am scared to move out as well … messed up shit na cant do anything

hmm…

in my case i stepped out of my comfort zone at 14.

Ps- i am a boy

are you doing some job

Yeah am working
like what do u mean by stepping out of comfort zone like how to just know that other person is right for you and allow you to be yourself , my head is just running with all sorts of things

you dont know, well in some sense you do (the universe tells your mind)

But most of the time you just go with the flow…

And let Time tell the real thing.

Either you get a gem or an experience to identify snakes before hand.

-__________

I left home at 14, started something and there’s been a long journey so far living alone and building something crazy

woah that a brave step what are you doing now

i have a tech startup hehe

nice good luck

thank you …

what do you do ?

i work a normal job kinda bpo but not that hectic though

ooo…

got it.

so hows life and how high are you in ?