Borderline Personality Disorder isn’t being cute and ‘clingy’ and ‘adorably needy’. Being with (romantic or otherwise) someone with BPD isn’t akin to taking care of a pet. BPD isn’t an ‘aw it’s so endearing that they need me so badly’ type of thing. BPD is a mental illness that is a conglomeration of several different tendencies and it’s not easy to diagnose. You don’t just decide you have it, just like you don’t decide you’re depressed because you had a bad day, or you don’t decide you’re bipolar because your mood changes quickly sometimes. Believe me, you don’t want it.
Gaurvi Narang @gaurvinaran...
I am sorry that you are so bothered by it. I really respect you for sharing your feelings here. A lot of us are living with illnesses and people like you who deal with such battles on an everyday basis are true heroes and I hope you realize that!
Yeah… great talking…
People with BPD need help… But cant ask… When we do people will say" you should overcome it" or " you should help yourself" or “its all in your head”.
BPD is no joke… Its really really hard to face it.
