Borderline Personality Disorder isn’t being cute and ‘clingy’ and ‘adorably needy’. Being with (romantic or otherwise) someone with BPD isn’t akin to taking care of a pet. BPD isn’t an ‘aw it’s so endearing that they need me so badly’ type of thing. BPD is a mental illness that is a conglomeration of several different tendencies and it’s not easy to diagnose. You don’t just decide you have it, just like you don’t decide you’re depressed because you had a bad day, or you don’t decide you’re bipolar because your mood changes quickly sometimes. Believe me, you don’t want it.

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Gaurvi Narang @gaurvinaran...

I am sorry that you are so bothered by it. I really respect you for sharing your feelings here. A lot of us are living with illnesses and people like you who deal with such battles on an everyday basis are true heroes and I hope you realize that!

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