Girl…I don’t know if u r married,single,arranged/love marriage,independent,financially stable,have kids etc etc OR NOT….BUT none of these things justify violence. Please don’t behave like a emotional fool by staying in such relationship thinking he will change or he will love u…understand u etc etc. This relationship is a bigggg NO. If your family knows about ur relationship…please share this with your family and take their help immediately and if u r strong enough mentally…please take legal action too. If your family is not aware of your relationship…try to tell them and worst case scenario if you can’t….just get out of that relationship. He will only and only harm you. Don’t entertain such behavior in the name of love or understanding.