4 years ago, when i was a first-year bachelor’s student, i fell in love with the person who i knew would never love me back (he is gay). Eventually, we became close friends. We had our ups and downs, and this person is one of the closest friends for me right now. I thought that being just friends was totally ok for me. But i have failed to notice for quite a long time that this friendship has only cause me pain, despite all the good things that it has brought to my life, as I’m never going to be satisfied with just being friends. What is more, this relationship has definitely been complicating my life, as this person has become my addiction and obsession. All this time my life has been revolving around him. I know that the best solution for me is to stop any contact with this person for some time, but I don’t want to destroy this friendship and lose this person for good. I don’t know what to do.