You said you will change your life this year.

6 months already passed.

Have you changed anything yet?

Personal Growth

Hi everyone
I am unable to build trust on my husband though he is not wrong at all earlier he did a small mistake but now he understood n changed 

Next thing he is not willing to quit his drinking n smoking habit inspite of me making several attempts to make him understand. I feel worried abt his health. But I don't know what triggers him not to leave it inspite of knowing I feel bad n really helpless when he doesn't take my words seriously 

Relationships

I don't know if anyone can relate but I feel my in laws try to barge in between my and my husband's relationship  ... Knowingly or unknowingly and somehow I feel as if m just some outsider not d part of the family ... And if anyone values my feeling and give me slight attention my mother in law has major problem with it as if everything and everyone should only value her and her feelings and choosing to ignore everything fills me with so much of rage that I am expected to just give ... I am always somehow made to feel like outsider... I don't understand at times what should I do. And will avoiding in laws up untill they understand my value b the right thing to do.

Mental Illness

Hello there! So I am still married but separated from my husband last summer. There is this guy I've been flirting with since then and even before that. We went out a couple of times, we talked a lot, opened our hearts, flirted a lot, bonded, but nothing more happened. He's always been hot and cold. Things seemed to be lifting up lately, but then he started acting weird, avoiding talking to me, avoiding eye contact with me. I texted him yesterday to see how he's doing with all the CODID19 madness but he hasn't replied. I know he has his issues because he's still recovering from a health problem he had. But can't he see he's hurting me with this behaviour? Do you think his behaviour has anything to do with me still being married and not sure about getting a divorce? Or is he just not that interested?

Guys is there anyone from law background? I want help!!!!!!!!!!!

Education

What do you do when you feel like your in a position where you have to choose your husband over your friend and vice versa? 

Last year, I had an argument with a friend and we later go over it. My husband rejoiced because he is not a fan of hers. When I wanted to rekindle with my friend, he was far less than supportive. Instead, it was insulting to me that he doesn’t want me to be friends with her because “she’s a bad influence on me”. And when I accepted an invitation to her daughter’s bday party, my husband and got into a huge argument, even though he is still also “friends” with her on social media. Every time if I bring her up, he makes it clear he wants me to stay away from her. 

So I listened, even though I do not agree. It’s gotten weird because I dream about her. And in my dreams I tell her how much I miss her. 

When her pictures pop up on my phone, sometimes I cry. 

I don’t want to piss off my husband, because I am tired of fighting. I know your spouse trumps over friends when it comes over ￼ priority, but I feel off. 

Thoughts? 

Society

Hello everyone. I'm felling very down, sad these past few weeks specially today. I really just need to speak to someone. My husband got a assistant that started working with him last year October. It is a single lady, first off all she insisted to only work with him, they have to go away on business trios together sometimes for a week at once. Normally when my husband was on business trips alone he used to phone a lot and speak to us a lot but since she is going with him we don't hear from him so much and if we phone him he is always talking fast can't talk long his got no time. Now my husband got a new job and guess what she is also moving to the new company. They phone each other rhen my husband leaves the room to talk to her for long. When I ask him what is going on he just said she needed someone to talk to and git no one else. If I get upset over this he says I am unreasonable. They send whatsapps to each other also I am not allowed to touch his phone at all. I think there is something between them but when ever I meantion this then I am in trouble. 

Cheating

I m married since 7 and half years. In this period of time we have very on and off relationship we dont have single thing in comman. Now we had a fight 4-5 days ago and we are not talking to each other. I don't even feel like talking. He had given me worst time of my life. I m still with him just because of my beautifull 6 year daughter. I m not happy in this marriage. It is not healthy for either of us. wht should I do?

Emotional Abuse

i feel unhappy. married for 5 years with 2 lovely kids. and my husband and I were together for almost 16 years. He cheated on me but asked to save our marriage and family. But I cant forget. It pains me almost all the time trying to forget. I think he is not yet ready for any of the responsibilities. He just want to be with his friends and play mobile games and enjoy motor rides. I want to leave him but he is making it hard for me telling he is sorry but it doesn't show.

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