Thought

πŸ‘€
Anonymous

You know, sometimes it is so difficult to understand whether or not you want to be in a particular relationship, not because the other person is mistreating you or that there is some flaw in them. Just some instinct which says β€œno”
I don’t know if it’s because there are many more aspects to a relationship than just liking someone. I feel the older I’m growing, the more wary I’m getting about the whole idea of commitment. Is that possible ? or even normal ? And sometimes I think maybe it’s a mood thing and I just shun it. I wish I knew, or I wish I didn’t think so much.

2 replies

Charu @charu

β€’

I think when you know, you know. And if you’re doubtign yourself, I think that’s just something which is normal. I feel like I have always had commitment issues, so in that sense it is different for me and you. Maybe somethig=ng is holdign you back because of what you have seen or been through. Maybe that is the case.

Kashika @kashika

β€’

It’s normal definitely. All our feelings are normal. As we grow up we realise we don’t always need others. We are all fine by ourselves. A slight change in the other person’s behaviour can make us question our relationship. Learn to say β€˜no’ and learn to stand up for yourself. In a true relationship, there won’t be any need for that.

Related Thoughts

πŸ‘€
Anonymous
It's been a while i post a message there , but I want to say… Read more
3
Profile picture for Now&Me member @darshanpatil024

darshan patil @darshanpati...

Exited and confused Hey people hi I hope all are in your goo… Read more
4
πŸ‘€
Anonymous
Too frustrated ..too tired ... sleepless.. losing patience t… Read more
7
πŸ‘€
Anonymous
There's this sad feeling longing since I don't even know mak… Read more
2

Jojibabu @121121pj

Hi
πŸ‘€
Anonymous
thought this platform was real ..but it's just lowkey tinder… Read more
4
πŸ‘€
Anonymous
Can anybody talk to me please
113
Profile picture for Now&Me member @josna_wilson

Josna W @josna_wilson

Just Because your past was painful doesn't mean your future … Read more
2