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You know, sometimes it is so difficult to understand whether or not you want to be in a particular relationship, not because the other person is mistreating you or that there is some flaw in them. Just some instinct which says โ€œnoโ€
I donโ€™t know if itโ€™s because there are many more aspects to a relationship than just liking someone. I feel the older Iโ€™m growing, the more wary Iโ€™m getting about the whole idea of commitment. Is that possible ? or even normal ? And sometimes I think maybe itโ€™s a mood thing and I just shun it. I wish I knew, or I wish I didnโ€™t think so much.

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Charu @charu

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I think when you know, you know. And if youโ€™re doubtign yourself, I think thatโ€™s just something which is normal. I feel like I have always had commitment issues, so in that sense it is different for me and you. Maybe somethig=ng is holdign you back because of what you have seen or been through. Maybe that is the case.

Kashika @kashika

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Itโ€™s normal definitely. All our feelings are normal. As we grow up we realise we donโ€™t always need others. We are all fine by ourselves. A slight change in the other personโ€™s behaviour can make us question our relationship. Learn to say โ€˜noโ€™ and learn to stand up for yourself. In a true relationship, there wonโ€™t be any need for that.

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