You know, sometimes it is so difficult to understand whether or not you want to be in a particular relationship, not because the other person is mistreating you or that there is some flaw in them. Just some instinct which says βnoβ
I donβt know if itβs because there are many more aspects to a relationship than just liking someone. I feel the older Iβm growing, the more wary Iβm getting about the whole idea of commitment. Is that possible ? or even normal ? And sometimes I think maybe itβs a mood thing and I just shun it. I wish I knew, or I wish I didnβt think so much.
Charu @charu
I think when you know, you know. And if youβre doubtign yourself, I think thatβs just something which is normal. I feel like I have always had commitment issues, so in that sense it is different for me and you. Maybe somethig=ng is holdign you back because of what you have seen or been through. Maybe that is the case.
Kashika @kashika
Itβs normal definitely. All our feelings are normal. As we grow up we realise we donβt always need others. We are all fine by ourselves. A slight change in the other personβs behaviour can make us question our relationship. Learn to say βnoβ and learn to stand up for yourself. In a true relationship, there wonβt be any need for that.