You know, sometimes it is so difficult to understand whether or not you want to be in a particular relationship, not because the other person is mistreating you or that there is some flaw in them. Just some instinct which says “no”
I don’t know if it’s because there are many more aspects to a relationship than just liking someone. I feel the older I’m growing, the more wary I’m getting about the whole idea of commitment. Is that possible ? or even normal ? And sometimes I think maybe it’s a mood thing and I just shun it. I wish I knew, or I wish I didn’t think so much.
I think when you know, you know. And if you’re doubtign yourself, I think that’s just something which is normal. I feel like I have always had commitment issues, so in that sense it is different for me and you. Maybe somethig=ng is holdign you back because of what you have seen or been through. Maybe that is the case.
It’s normal definitely. All our feelings are normal. As we grow up we realise we don’t always need others. We are all fine by ourselves. A slight change in the other person’s behaviour can make us question our relationship. Learn to say ‘no’ and learn to stand up for yourself. In a true relationship, there won’t be any need for that.