You know, sometimes it is so difficult to understand whether or not you want to be in a particular relationship, not because the other person is mistreating you or that there is some flaw in them. Just some instinct which says “no”
I don’t know if it’s because there are many more aspects to a relationship than just liking someone. I feel the older I’m growing, the more wary I’m getting about the whole idea of commitment. Is that possible ? or even normal ? And sometimes I think maybe it’s a mood thing and I just shun it. I wish I knew, or I wish I didn’t think so much.
Charu @charu
I think when you know, you know. And if you’re doubtign yourself, I think that’s just something which is normal. I feel like I have always had commitment issues, so in that sense it is different for me and you. Maybe somethig=ng is holdign you back because of what you have seen or been through. Maybe that is the case.
Kashika @kashika
It’s normal definitely. All our feelings are normal. As we grow up we realise we don’t always need others. We are all fine by ourselves. A slight change in the other person’s behaviour can make us question our relationship. Learn to say ‘no’ and learn to stand up for yourself. In a true relationship, there won’t be any need for that.
