You know.. most relationships fall and fail due to one reason.. failure to identify one of the most crucial things in any relationship.. Need.. We all just shroud that requirement.. the need.. special for each of us.. with a very strong emotion.. Love.. which is nothing but the emotional manifestation of the need..

If you figure out what your partner's need is.. and what your need is  or needs are.. you'll find the answer to your most troublesome questions.. "will this work", "she won't leave ri8.. or " why didn't this work"
Just think about this and you'll have a much clear view of whether the two puzzle pieces fit together or not..

Love

Hi!

I unexpectedly fell in love with someone who is in love with someone else, her boyfriend. She told me she loves me too but she can't break up with him yet due to his feeling of depression. I felt her love for him is still genuine. I am getting exhausted of waiting and being afraid of being the one left out everytime. It has been months but still I love her. Has anyone experienced this before and what did you do? I would listen to all comments, suggestions even judgements (but please be gentle). Thank you

I thought she was cute 😤

3am Thoughts

How to slide into a girl dm ? she is totally unknown to me.

I've been in a long distance relationship before, and was Fortunate enough to meet her in person, but it was then that my issues started showing, I loved her with all my heart but didn't trust her. That caused our beautiful relationship to end. 

I am now in a similar situation, I fell in love with another woman, but today I realised I too don't trust her... Or anyone, in fact. She wants to keep me but I'm too afraid to hurt her in the long term with my personal issues. She told me to find a friend I could trust to talk about this, but I have none. I trust none. So I decided to ask you, a complete stranger for your opinion, your take on things, perhaps even advice... I appreciate you for reading this. Thanks and be well.

Relationships

So this girl is from my city and she lives in Abroad I was also there till last year, we started talking 6 months back and things got serious from my end very deeply and from her end not too deep but yes it was something we used to be on video call day and night, we were not dating dating as we know there will be no future as there is a big difference in terms of Financial status between both the families. Now 2 days back she got pissed over something and we stopped talking and then next morning she found a guy on bumble, he invited her to meet and she went to see him the same afternoon.
They were roaming around later it got cold so she went to his place and they were again drinking talking and stuff. Then that guy kissed her and she dint refuse but after sometime she did and came back to her place. 1 day after all this happened she says sorry about talking to me like that and arguing over something which I was not related to and asked me to not let go of her. I was happy that my soul is back but half an hour later she spilled the beans where she told everything that happened with the guy and I was shattered, it broke my heart to the core now she wants me to make peace with the fact that this is gonna happen and we both need to be open to see anyone and comfortable sharing about it ignoring the fact that we both have a thing for each other in our heart but I am unable to do it and I am not ready to share her with anyone, thinking of she being with someone else breaks my heart into pieces.
Now I don’t know what should I do? Should I make peace with it and keep loving her till whenever or should I let go off her. She doesn’t want me to let go off her as she says I am someone she always wanted, I also don’t want to let her go because of how I feel for her.
Please suggest me what’s best for me?

Mental Health

I am done with this... Me and My partner had an urguement yesterday Now everytime something happens she makes a Big story out of it and she is like We need a break we need to think... I mean what am i... Then after some days she comes back acts okay and Says she loves me then something happens She does the same. Every Relationship Has problems and Things. I DONT KNOW what ahould i do. Its  hurts me too.

Frustration

She's so cool.. She's so nice

Out of 10 I'll give her 9.

Dedicated to a girl members.. 💕🙈👏

Affirmations

my current situation is pretty weird and confusing. so i recently came out as a bisexual and was lucky enough to find someone just as me, but i'm afraid i'll get hurt coz all of my past relationships [with boys] have turned out pretty traumatizing that i just can't be calm. i really like her, have known her for more than 2 years and i want this to work, but i cant be calm coz it feels like a first relationship just with scary bed time stories. any advice how should i deal with it?


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