You know how they say, "Those who can't do, teach".

But nobody tells you that, those who teach, were being taught once.

My point is, there will always bhi someone looking out for you.

I guess I wrote this half asleep 🤣.

My point is, there will always **be** someone looking out for you.

Friends

Every stumbling block in life has taught me only one lesson, 
whatever the path may be, just trust your feet..!!

3am Thoughts

Attended a wedding after a very long time . A wedding where I didn't had to work😂. Sed life of bois😪😅

Happy

I don't know where to go, so writing it in here. 
My husband is taking his mom with him to make her stay with us. We just got married recently. It's just one and half months. i had to stay with his mom once before marriage for 25 days, and in those 25 days, she showed me hell. I wasn't even married to him at that time. She criticized me for everything, right from how I use washroom to how i seat to my cooking.. everything. I was pursuing my PG at that time, i had to do a lot of work on my laptop, whenever i used to work for my presentations or anything, she used to taunt me about those. And now as I am married to the guy, i have to stay with the lady. She made my cry many times due to her behaviour towards me. My head is exploding. I find myself always thinking about the future scenarios when she will be here. It's just another 13days and they are gonna be here. Can't take it anymore.cant run away also. I don't know what to do. Can't talk to my husband about this also. Whenever i tried talking, he criticized me saying i have a very bad mentality. I can't take it anymore. my brain is just not working properly. I don't know where to go. 

Conflict

Hi all . I am married for 8 years with 2 children . I am at the border line to get yelled out because of the tortures faced by my mother in law and the triggers she gives to my husband to beat me. My husband does nothing at home when we were in a joined family ( he , his 2 brothers) . I used to struggle with 2 kids with 2 c sections done . My mother in law is a good actor and very talented . She shows off her talents everywhere which was very visible to me . She acts as if she takes care of me in front of my husband . She supports her elder daughter in law just because she got screwed up from her elder son once for scolding her. She scolds me in front of everybody’. Everything I shared to my husband for which he said me to ignore . But now the problem has raised to a level where he beats me for everything in front of everybody if he thinks he can’t control me . My mom once came home and questioned them but she was ill treated and accused me of a bad grown up. All the maid who was there opened everything how my kids were treated and how elder sons kids were treated .  She has once strongly said ‘ get out of the house ‘. So I moved out for which all blame came to me because they turned the things against me to my husband . He begged me to come back saying we have a 3 floor house ready and we can move there . And then we moved but problems dint vanish because they were put up in ground floors and we were at 1 st floor . Mother in law used to cook for his first and third sons but not for us . We kept a maid to cook and take care of the kids because I was working that time . And she made sure that my husband alone was getting necessary food items he likes. His elder brothers wife doesn’t cook at all , doesn’t take care of her kids . It’s all my mother in law who cooks for them and takes care of them. But not a 1% she took care of my kids . All these my husband know. Sometimes he asks me to cook for his mother and I have did . Once when I dint he took the entire food and gave his mom and left me nothing. It has become very normal that he can beat me , abuse with words saying my family as prostitute family . I don have father for the past 9 years . There is nobody to support me from my side . Now we are in USA , he is trying all possible tries to bring his family here . I am now ready to get separated from him . I am a bold girl as always but I am so scared in this matter . It is now like I am all alone Suffering with 2 kids . 

Domestic Abuse

do we have any divorce lawyer here? 

Is it with everyone that after marriage you are asked to give share of your earned money to inlaws needs. I am doing work from home after getting married. But I am supposed to do all household chores along with my job. I feel very exhausted and sometimes i feel i should have never got married 

Depression

When he tells you he wants to make it work bc he cant bare the thought of not seeing his kids every day... isnt that a slap in the face, he pretty much said he is only with me bc of the kids right ?

Breakup

My husband is a good man he takes care n responsibility but there is no emotional bond...he  keeps detaching...he s not expressive or loving ...all he does is being on the phone no talks or just casual talks nothing goes deeper and no cuddles hugs holding hands even when a nice song comes I ll ask to dance with and he never ever did that.....never admits my goods and always wait for mistakes when it happens he immediately points out...I can stay calm once r twice but ...I can't bear every single time ...I left that he s like that I can't expect from him but seeing the couples how loving n expressing I feel bad..

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